Serious issues with using condoms, need help

[sangheili90]

I figured this was the correct sub section of the forum for this.

I've met several different women lately and recently have been experimenting with using different brands of condoms and I am having some very serious issues with them to the point that they aren't an option.

The first major issue right off the bat comes down to the fit I have with them. I've tried several different sizes and have a difficult time rolling the condom down the middle part of my shaft, I can do it but it takes a lot of work and is uncomfortable. Once I do it get it unrolled though the condom is very loose around the glans of my penis, which is relatively thin and narrow compared to my shaft, and renders the condom useless.

The next issue I have is a total lack of sensitivity and blood flow. When I put the condoms on I literally feel nothing pleasurable and very quickly lose my erection. Wearing a condom just numbs my penis and I can literally see myself go limp as soon as the dumb thing is on.

The biggest issue I have is with the actual tip and glans of the penis itself. Being uncut, the glans of my penis are very sensitive so putting on and using a condom, which forces the unnatural retraction of my foreskin, is VERY painful.

I've tried many different brands and sizes and nothing works, they just don't work for me and I cannot ever see being able to use one during sex. I'm not sure if this is normal but I'm not sure if there is anything I can really do about this. I'm not looking to sleep around with a bunch of random women so as long as we get tested I'm not worried at all about that. Any advice would be appreciated.

 

[Hung10x]

Hey man I've been here in terms of being uncomfortable- took me ages to realise that condoms come in lots of different sizes and that only a few are in stores. Have you tried Amazon? I use a brand called mysize which are pretty comfortable and don't force my foreskin back at all.
Saying that if you have tried a lot of different varieties and no joy, then I'm stumped

 

[europeandude]

Think of getting cut. It helped me having sex with condom a lot!

 

[MilfBanger78]

yeah condoms suck. I gotta use some liquid cialis or viagra when i have to use a rubber, just to keep the blood flow while my mind is distracted during the awkward switching positions, condom getting tight etc. Make sure your chick/chicks are on birth control, or get with older MILF's that are fixed (my main method lol)

 

[someperson]

I figured this was the correct sub section of the forum for this.

I've met several different women lately and recently have been experimenting with using different brands of condoms and I am having some very serious issues with them to the point that they aren't an option.

The first major issue right off the bat comes down to the fit I have with them. I've tried several different sizes and have a difficult time rolling the condom down the middle part of my shaft, I can do it but it takes a lot of work and is uncomfortable. Once I do it get it unrolled though the condom is very loose around the glans of my penis, which is relatively thin and narrow compared to my shaft, and renders the condom useless.

The next issue I have is a total lack of sensitivity and blood flow. When I put the condoms on I literally feel nothing pleasurable and very quickly lose my erection. Wearing a condom just numbs my penis and I can literally see myself go limp as soon as the dumb thing is on.

The biggest issue I have is with the actual tip and glans of the penis itself. Being uncut, the glans of my penis are very sensitive so putting on and using a condom, which forces the unnatural retraction of my foreskin, is VERY painful.

I've tried many different brands and sizes and nothing works, they just don't work for me and I cannot ever see being able to use one during sex. I'm not sure if this is normal but I'm not sure if there is anything I can really do about this. I'm not looking to sleep around with a bunch of random women so as long as we get tested I'm not worried at all about that. Any advice would be appreciated.

cut off your penis is a good option

you know you have to pull back your foreskin before putting it on right?

if it's pulling on it then you are doing something wrong

 

[sangheili90]

Think of getting cut. It helped me having sex with condom a lot!

Why in the hell would I ever want to do that?

 

[sangheili90]

Hey man I've been here in terms of being uncomfortable- took me ages to realise that condoms come in lots of different sizes and that only a few are in stores. Have you tried Amazon? I use a brand called mysize which are pretty comfortable and don't force my foreskin back at all.
Saying that if you have tried a lot of different varieties and no joy, then I'm stumped

I've tried several different brands and models; magnums, Trojan bareskins, skyn, durex ultra sensitive, Trojan fire and ice. I'll go into the store and buy the 3 pack boxes they have and go through a trial run with them, no luck.

 

[sangheili90]

yeah condoms suck. I gotta use some liquid cialis or viagra when i have to use a rubber, just to keep the blood flow while my mind is distracted during the awkward switching positions, condom getting tight etc. Make sure your chick/chicks are on birth control, or get with older MILF's that are fixed (my main method lol)

I'm really thinking of just asking them to go in and get tested with me and then have bareback sex without her on some form of birth control, assuming she is willing to do that.

 

[socalfreak]

I figured this was the correct sub section of the forum for this.

I've met several different women lately and recently have been experimenting with using different brands of condoms and I am having some very serious issues with them to the point that they aren't an option.

The first major issue right off the bat comes down to the fit I have with them. I've tried several different sizes and have a difficult time rolling the condom down the middle part of my shaft, I can do it but it takes a lot of work and is uncomfortable. Once I do it get it unrolled though the condom is very loose around the glans of my penis, which is relatively thin and narrow compared to my shaft, and renders the condom useless.

The next issue I have is a total lack of sensitivity and blood flow. When I put the condoms on I literally feel nothing pleasurable and very quickly lose my erection. Wearing a condom just numbs my penis and I can literally see myself go limp as soon as the dumb thing is on.

The biggest issue I have is with the actual tip and glans of the penis itself. Being uncut, the glans of my penis are very sensitive so putting on and using a condom, which forces the unnatural retraction of my foreskin, is VERY painful.

I've tried many different brands and sizes and nothing works, they just don't work for me and I cannot ever see being able to use one during sex. I'm not sure if this is normal but I'm not sure if there is anything I can really do about this. I'm not looking to sleep around with a bunch of random women so as long as we get tested I'm not worried at all about that. Any advice would be appreciated.

You DO understand that it can take up to 3 months, post-exposure, for AIDS to show up on a blood test, right??
So, what's your plan?..... Kidnap some girl and keep her locked up in your sister's house for three months, get her tested, & then try?

 

[europeandude]

I figured this was the correct sub section of the forum for this.

The biggest issue I have is with the actual tip and glans of the penis itself. Being uncut, the glans of my penis are very sensitive so putting on and using a condom, which forces the unnatural retraction of my foreskin, is VERY painful.

That is why you can consider circumcision as one of the solutions of your issues.

 

[sangheili90]

That is why you can consider circumcision as one of the solutions of your issues.

Having my penis mutilated isn't a solution to having issues wearing condoms.

 

[Dave NoCal]

Many guys have to get themselves accustomed to condoms. Get a size that fits, pull back your foreskin, there is mildly anesthetic lubricant available and you could put a tiny bit in the tip, masturbate exclusively with a condom... frequently.

 

[sangheili90]

Many guys have to get themselves accustomed to condoms. Get a size that fits, pull back your foreskin, there is mildly anesthetic lubricant available and you could put a tiny bit in the tip, masturbate exclusively with a condom... frequently.

That's what I've been trying to do, practice by masturbation with a condom on, but I have all of the issues that I mentioned. I go limp, can't feel anything but pain on the tip and because of that have to stop.

 

[Dave NoCal]

Not so sound unsympathetic but it should get better as the tip becomes desensitized.

 

[Dutchstud]

I have never heard about foreskin problems with condoms. I am uncut myself. What I experience is a reaction on ordinary condoms they give for free in gay venues. Not only they feel like sandwich bags, the material irritates my sensitive skin under the foreskin, a sort of latex irritation.

I purchase better condoms. Ultrathin and with materials great for sensitive skin. After all when I have a long fuck session, I am really enforcing contact of my dick with that rubber so superior condoms for a few bucks more are really give the feel of almost a bare fuck ánd no skin reaction because of cheap latex.

 

[deleted936015]

Try a bigger condom?

Making the active choice to go bareback with randoms tho...
May aswell cut ur cock off now and save the pain later on

 

[sangheili90]

Try a bigger condom?

Making the active choice to go bareback with randoms tho...
May aswell cut ur cock off now and save the pain later on

I've tried Trojan Magnums, I have the same issues. I'm not choosing to sleep around with randoms, these would be with potential long term partners.

 

[deleted936015]

Dont they make them in a larger size?

Not sure about over there but here our large off the shelf condoms are 60mm.
Id suggest going to mysize, finding ur size and getting some of them.

Sure to find one there that will work for u.
Than get used to the sensation.
Unprotected sex isnt sex worth having

 

[sangheili90]

Dont they make them in a larger size?

Not sure about over there but here our large off the shelf condoms are 60mm.
Id suggest going to mysize, finding ur size and getting some of them.

Sure to find one there that will work for u.
Than get used to the sensation.
Unprotected sex isnt sex worth having

If you aren't sleeping around and in a relationship with someone it really isn't an issue, assuming she is clean as well.

 

[deleted936015]

How long are you willing to wait for that? Also its hard to find women who are willing to let a new partner go un protected.

I think that will be the biggest hurdel to over come.