Serious Male Hatred and Resentment

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Your dick is the same size, but the fat has increased so much that your dick measures smaller now. Lose the fat and gain back your dick. It sounds to me like you have penis envy, and your hatred of other men with or suspected of having a big dick is ridiculous, it takes a whole lot of energy to keep HATE intact. Do your self a favor and forget anyone else's dick size and concentrate on your problems which sound pretty substantial from a reader point of view.
 

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Oh yes, I didn't mean to go off on so much of a tangent without mentioning that I do agree that reflecting your issues onto other men is a serious psychological issue. It is not necessarily their fault that you feel the way you do about yourself.


Yeah. It's almost like the one guy just started on the whole "fat" thing as a way to further shame the OP. Not that the OP doesn't have issues, or anything, 'cause he does, and needs professional help; but the whole "fat" issue just obscures things, IMO.

OP NEEDS a shrink, one to TALK to; not more meds.
 

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Weight gain or loss is never going to take 2" off anyone's penis.

You don't gain or lose weight on your dick. Otherwise those 40 stone guys on the tv would have massive 11 inch schlongs and instead of them asking for Jerry Springer to take the wall of their trailer, they'd be boasting to every other man in the world about how they got such a big cock.

You cannot lose weight on your cock, and you cannot make it bigger by eating McDonalds.
 

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what the fuck? no medication will chop inches off your cock. it might give you a half mast boner but your size won't shrink.

right!?
 

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Its not the world that's centered around having a big cock and things like that, its you. You were used to having a big one and now that you don't you're bitter and want to blame the world for the fact that you are not bigger than most.

Stop the pity party and grow up. The world does not revolve around being big down there. Lots of people are probably not over 6 inches, but they get over it because they have more important things to worry about than cock size.

The best way I could describe this is like being a child because you don't have the biggest, greatest toy to make the rest jealous.
 

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Its not the world that's centered around having a big cock and things like that, its you. You were used to having a big one and now that you don't you're bitter and want to blame the world for the fact that you are not bigger than most.

Stop the pity party and grow up. The world does not revolve around being big down there. Lots of people are probably not over 6 inches, but they get over it because they have more important things to worry about than cock size.

The best way I could describe this is like being a child because you don't have the biggest, greatest toy to make the rest jealous.

You don't want to question the medical science then?
 
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Okay, well here goes
First time ever admitting this, but I am a formally large guy, kind of masquerading around as a still large guy.
I had a long schlong all through HS and college. I am tall and I was very skinny, very skinny. Well, then I went on this medication and I gained 75 pounds in one year. I gained inches all over, but of course, lost inches on my dick. A lot too.
I went from 8.5 to 6.5 or less.
It really has caused big self esteem issues for me. I actually somehow developed resentment towards guys, all guys. I have completely got rid of all of my guy friends. I don't even want to be around them anymore. If I think they are large down there it makes it really bad. I am married and stuff, and my wife do.esnt care because she said it just hurt half the time before anyways
I care though. I hate, I actually hate both of my brother-in-laws because I know they have big ones, and I treat them really bad. I am sure they have no idea why.

I just feel like the world is so centered around cocks, and lengths, and bulges, that it's the only thing that seems important to people anymore. That is all that women want. Shows like "Hung" say it all.

Just wondering how crazy that seems, but be nice yall.
No stupid arse comments that are just aimed to me me feel bad, allright?
I'm just trying to keep it real here.

Cool story, bro.
 

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Weight gain or loss is never going to take 2" off anyone's penis.

You don't gain or lose weight on your dick. Otherwise those 40 stone guys on the tv would have massive 11 inch schlongs and instead of them asking for Jerry Springer to take the wall of their trailer, they'd be boasting to every other man in the world about how they got such a big cock.

You cannot lose weight on your cock, and you cannot make it bigger by eating McDonalds.
Maybe you want to buy a clue. The stomach gets bigger and the fat around it grows around the cock. I do agree that 2 inches is surprising and hard to believe, but with that weight gain, who knows
 

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Well, perhaps someone could clarify this, but I thought that the fat pad under the skin and surrounding the penis got thicker as men gained weight so that it was possible to effectively lose inches even though the actual length of the penis remained the same.

Regardless, I think that the OP is one of many men on LPSG who have body dysmorphic disorder and who could benefit from professional help. You've allowed this delusion that your penis size is that important to affect your relationships with other men and you care less about your wife's sexual satisfaction than having a big dick. I have to say, you really need professional help to realign your priorities so that they aren't so shallow.

Most women do not select men based upon penis size and the world most certainly does not revolve around it. I've never known how large a man's penis was before I saw it and I didn't fall for men depending on the size of their cocks. Most other women are the same way. There really aren't many size queens! After all, look at how few women there are at all on LPSG. As a place where anyone can come and be honest because of the courage provided by anonymity, there's nothing preventing women from coming here to look at big penises and talking about them, but very few do. It's because penis size is a man's obsession.

Using a fictional show to illustrate that the world revolves around penis size is as meaningful as using the X-Files to demonstrate how FBI agents behave or House to learn about how doctors act. It's fiction!

Your wife has told you that she likes your size and she didn't before. That's wonderful. You would rather sex return to hurting her again? Not only are you self-pitying over something so inconsequential, you care that little about your wife's sexual satisfaction with you? I have to say, I felt a bit annoyed at you when I read that.

Please seek the help of a therapist.
 
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Maybe you want to buy a clue. The stomach gets bigger and the fat around it grows around the cock. I do agree that 2 inches is surprising and hard to believe, but with that weight gain, who knows

Fat does not grow around the cock. Otherwise fat guys would be saying, 'hey you skinny fucks come learn how I got a massive dick'.

They aren't, and they didn't.
 

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Regardless of how (or if) it happened, this thread is nothing but a cry for attention (and a terrible one at that). I would drop it like a hot pumpkin.
 

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To grow it by 2 inches?

You have it backwards. Fat grows under the skin around the penis, not on the penis, which buries the base of it and makes the penis functionally shorter, not bigger.

If he lost the weight, the fat pad around his penis would be thinner, which would reveal more of his penis, so it would be longer.

Like a mailbox surrounded by several feet of packed snow. If you're walking on top of the packed snow then you might have to bend over to get your mail even though you normally don't have to. The mailbox didn't get shorter, but the "ground" you walk on rose. The snow is the fat, the mailbox is his cock. I don't know if this is true, but it makes sense to me. Dr. Oz said it and I've seen others on LPSG talking about it, but I have no personal experience.
 
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I had a long schlong all through HS and college. I am tall and I was very skinny, very skinny. Well, then I went on this medication and I gained 75 pounds in one year. I gained inches all over, but of course, lost inches on my dick. A lot too.
I went from 8.5 to 6.5 or less.

OK, first off, I share your pain. I, too, am rather heavyset...I'm working on becoming somewhat of a gymrat, hence the ID, but I'm not there yet.

And, second, your penis did not shrink. Period. It did not.

What happened is that the fat grew in around it, and makes it look shorter...and your bulk makes it look smaller *in proportion* to what is around it.

I have the same issue. I am statistically large, even with the fat. Once I lose it, I'll likely be huge, again.

It really has caused big self esteem issues for me.

Why? Is your self esteem somehow tied to the length of your penis? I'm not certain I understand the problem. You're still the guy you were, and there's just more of you to love. The stereotype of the jolly fat man exists, for a reason!

I actually somehow developed resentment towards guys, all guys. I have completely got rid of all of my guy friends. I don't even want to be around them anymore. If I think they are large down there it makes it really bad. I am married and stuff, and my wife do.esnt care because she said it just hurt half the time before anyways
I care though. I hate, I actually hate both of my brother-in-laws because I know they have big ones, and I treat them really bad. I am sure they have no idea why.

This indicates a genuine problem. Feeling a sense of loss, I could understand. Transferring it onto others, and lashing out in what you describe as resentment and hatred, is a very extreme reaction.

Jealousy, I could see. This -- seek help.

I just feel like the world is so centered around cocks, and lengths, and bulges, that it's the only thing that seems important to people anymore.

You are married. Let me start by asking you WHY you are discussing your penis with other women?! Seriously???

The opinions of other women should not matter...unless you're cheating on your wife, at which point -- seek help.

All you can do is to be the best you, you can be. Yeah, it's cliche, but it's also true. Other people don't matter...what matters is your own self image, and the way that it's been affected.

Say, out of curiosity, what kinds of medications are you taking? Obviously one of the side effects is weight gain. Are any of the other side effects psychological? Depression, mood changes, etc? As I said, earlier, your reaction is very extreme.

Just wondering how crazy that seems, but be nice yall.

Quite crazy, frankly. So crazy that I cannot fully comprehend your reaction.

Hey, you said you wanted honesty. That's it!

Sir, you need help. You need to talk this through with someone. You obviously do not believe your wife, when she says that you are OK. You have trust issues. You have jealousy issues. You have resentment issues. Hate is growing in your heart. And, your self-image has taken a nose dive.

And, frankly, tying your self worth to the length of your penis was questionable, even in the best of situations. I suspect that you have many admirable traits that have *nothing* to do with your penis. Focus on some of them!!!

Please. Find someone with whom you can talk this through. A therapist is an obvious choice, as would be a close friend, or even a Preacher. Yeah, that guy in Church. They're not called "Father Confessor" for nothing, y'know.

And, talk to your doctor about that medication. I suspect it's doing more to you than *just* the weight gain.
 
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Your anger seems all over the place. You say it's YOU who has the hang up about large genitalia, but then you say OTHERS have the issue and want large size meats. Maybe a shrink would help with the anger issues and obvious confusion. It's hard to live well in the world when you carry such anger and insecurities. If you love your wife, why would you covet something that hurts her as she told you it did?
 

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You have it backwards. Fat grows under the skin around the penis, not on the penis, which buries the base of it and makes the penis functionally shorter, not bigger.

If he lost the weight, the fat pad around his penis would be thinner, which would reveal more of his penis, so it would be longer.

Like a mailbox surrounded by several feet of packed snow. If you're walking on top of the packed snow then you might have to bend over to get your mail even though you normally don't have to. The mailbox didn't get shorter, but the "ground" you walk on rose. The snow is the fat, the mailbox is his cock. I don't know if this is true, but it makes sense to me. Dr. Oz said it and I've seen others on LPSG talking about it, but I have no personal experience.

and this from her profile...........

"Guys, I'm not interested. I'm in love. You don't have a chance.
Interests.... I'm not into camming, sorry. Please don't ask.
Gender.... Female
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fuck off!
 
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