I looked all over the internet & there is information about having a small penis & positions. I have a larger than average penis & when I really get to it with my girlfriend she gets hurt. The first time there was some tearing... so I now go slow with her. The most recent problem is that I went too deep and she has a bladder infection b/c of me. What postions can we do where I won't go too deep? I have been thinking about getting a doughnut thing to put around the base of my cawk so I won't hurt her. I'm being serious here. At first she loved that I have a large one, now I am just afraid to have sex with her. I don't want to hurt her. You know, you would think having a large one would be a good thing.