Not sure where all the bad feeling is coming from in this thread. BC SAID he thought it was a dumb plan. But he's only recently started learning about what women are really like, and how they really think sexually, so why WOULDN'T he post it here to double check that he was on the right track? In the past he has believed what his friends told him, as he hadn't any experience of his own to go on. Now he's starting to have contact (if only virtual) with actual women, he's starting to form his own ideas of what women are like. But he's still learning. Why would anyone want to shoot him down for further exploring how women's minds really work? At least he's trying and changing. At least he's open to new ideas, instead of being stuck where he has been for his whole adult life.
Subgirrl I applaud your patience with this guy. You deserve a medal as far as I'm concerned. It's great that he's trying to change. On this occasion (I usually avoid his posts, so there may well be others) his thread is beyond naive and is insulting to women generally. He's not 10 years old. I just hope he's not taking advantage of your compassionate nature.
He wasn't just saying it was a dumb idea, he also asked how it might work.
Can anyone think of other reasons this is just a terrible idea? Or perhaps how it might somehow work?