Setting a woman up with a small guy you so that you seem relatively big?

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Not sure where all the bad feeling is coming from in this thread. BC SAID he thought it was a dumb plan. But he's only recently started learning about what women are really like, and how they really think sexually, so why WOULDN'T he post it here to double check that he was on the right track? In the past he has believed what his friends told him, as he hadn't any experience of his own to go on. Now he's starting to have contact (if only virtual) with actual women, he's starting to form his own ideas of what women are like. But he's still learning. Why would anyone want to shoot him down for further exploring how women's minds really work? At least he's trying and changing. At least he's open to new ideas, instead of being stuck where he has been for his whole adult life.

Subgirrl I applaud your patience with this guy. You deserve a medal as far as I'm concerned. It's great that he's trying to change. On this occasion (I usually avoid his posts, so there may well be others) his thread is beyond naive and is insulting to women generally. He's not 10 years old. I just hope he's not taking advantage of your compassionate nature.

He wasn't just saying it was a dumb idea, he also asked how it might work.

Can anyone think of other reasons this is just a terrible idea? Or perhaps how it might somehow work?
 

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This sounds like something Baldrick would cook up in the Black Adder series. "I have a very cunning plan. . . " :biggrin1:
 

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OK BC, I think you probably realise that this converstaion you had, was one that people would accept from twelve year olds, not thirty two year olds.

If you can't get a GF, I suggest you head to the city and hold up in a hotel for the weekend with a nice hooker and catch up on the last fifteen years.
 

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The other day I was talking to a friend and we came onto the subject of dick size, political correctness around it and stuff. Then he came up with this idea that just seemed not right to me: to set up a woman with a guy smaller than you so that you would then seem relatively large.

Okay, first off orchestrating this "hook up" sounds like it would be more trouble than it would be worth in the first place. How do you ensure she hooks up with just this guy that you want her to have sex with?

Then there is the fact that this plan is contingent on her having sex with the small guy, hating it because he's small then running to you. How do you know you won't just hook her up with this guy and then she stays hooked to the guy? Or hooks up with him and hates it so much that she then holds it against you?


Can anyone think of other reasons this is just a terrible idea? Or perhaps how it might somehow work?
It didn't seem right because it isn't right, yes, it's a terrible idea.

Aside from the truth that a relationship is based on more than dick size, there is the sleeze & pimp factor which is made when you send her off to be fucked by the smaller penis. As you said, she may fall madly in love with him, maybe she even prefers his size and talents. Better check his fucking skills and his tongue and finger techniques, he may be a gifted fucker that always brings the woman pleasure. There's more to good sex than just size.


If this fucked up scenario did work:rolleyes: and she fell into your arms and bed, there'd be the long term. She'd spend a lifetime searching for cock bigger than yours and testing them, and if she's with you merely because of size, then she'd dump your sorry ass the second a bigger 1 came along, is that where you want your love life to go? During the entire relationship you'd be wondering and worried that a bigger penis was about to appear and then she'd dump you.

Trust that when you meet a gal she'll like you, if the deal ends because of diick size then you didn't need her anyway.
 

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I really don't think that Basin deserves all the flack he is getting due to this thread. Ok. His friend is a creepy little toe rag, but he says as much in his OP. Yes he maybe could have phrased the "does it have a chance of working" line better. I took it as a morbid curiosity; no more, no less.

For those of you who seem to want to chime in only to say that they will not be reading or answering his threads anymore, here is a crazy idea for you...don't red or answer his threads. Some of you have said this before on other threads he has started, yet here you are, back again to say that you won't be bothering to do exactly what it is you are doing.

Regarding the subject matter of the thread? It is no less frivolous or inane than half of the shit posted on the forums of LPSG. Of course such a "plan" is reprehensible, and would realistically fall apart at any given point along the way to completion, not to mention the logistics of enacting it. I think all the ways it could fall apart have been brought up earlier in this thread.

Now seeing as how a recently jilted drunk was proposing it (and let us not forget that Basin said that his buddy had it coming because he was fucking around) I think the best thing for us to do is take it with a grain of salt, and the best thing for Basin to do is to rapidly distance himself from said individual IRL.
 

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If you are relatively big then your lover will know it. I think it is something to mull over - though no setting her up silliness on the lower levels of your ego. I read all the post and it seems that by the end the focus was on creating a sense of relative largeness and past the set her up for actual sex.
From personal experience this does make a nice little difference in life. I have twice followed one of those micro-penis guys, you know, really tiny like the porn guys Randy West and Ed Powers and she did "enjoy" the "upgrade".
Conversely, in my current relationship I am following Mr. Big.
Just luck of the draw.
Yes, I admit given current girlfriend is so much fun in bed and vastly more importantly out of the bed so with I could trade my draw. I will count on her having an iq higher than dim though and just know that I am relatively large compared to all and I will have to learn how to be acceptable in bed in spite of being relatively small to her prior, which sucks but is no shame given based upon sketchy, always to nearly always, the type of description a woman is going to give (you know, guys say something like "6 by 6" and woman is going to say "kind of long and really thick"), the dude should be one of the kings on this site and probably is... no, if I knew his screen name I would not look him up to see if he has pics, now that is bullshit, yes I would....
So, wanting to be relatively big compared to prior not a bad thought to wish for.
 

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Not sure where all the bad feeling is coming from in this thread. BC SAID he thought it was a dumb plan. But he's only recently started learning about what women are really like, and how they really think sexually, so why WOULDN'T he post it here to double check that he was on the right track? In the past he has believed what his friends told him, as he hadn't any experience of his own to go on. Now he's starting to have contact (if only virtual) with actual women, he's starting to form his own ideas of what women are like. But he's still learning. Why would anyone want to shoot him down for further exploring how women's minds really work? At least he's trying and changing. At least he's open to new ideas, instead of being stuck where he has been for his whole adult life.

I really don't think that Basin deserves all the flack he is getting due to this thread. Ok. His friend is a creepy little toe rag, but he says as much in his OP. Yes he maybe could have phrased the "does it have a chance of working" line better. I took it as a morbid curiosity; no more, no less.

For those of you who seem to want to chime in only to say that they will not be reading or answering his threads anymore, here is a crazy idea for you...don't red or answer his threads. Some of you have said this before on other threads he has started, yet here you are, back again to say that you won't be bothering to do exactly what it is you are doing.

Regarding the subject matter of the thread? It is no less frivolous or inane than half of the shit posted on the forums of LPSG. Of course such a "plan" is reprehensible, and would realistically fall apart at any given point along the way to completion, not to mention the logistics of enacting it. I think all the ways it could fall apart have been brought up earlier in this thread.

Now seeing as how a recently jilted drunk was proposing it (and let us not forget that Basin said that his buddy had it coming because he was fucking around) I think the best thing for us to do is take it with a grain of salt, and the best thing for Basin to do is to rapidly distance himself from said individual IRL.

Thank you both. :You_Rock_Emoticon:


Subgirrl I applaud your patience with this guy. You deserve a medal as far as I'm concerned. It's great that he's trying to change. On this occasion (I usually avoid his posts, so there may well be others) his thread is beyond naive and is insulting to women generally. He's not 10 years old. I just hope he's not taking advantage of your compassionate nature.

He wasn't just saying it was a dumb idea, he also asked how it might work.

But I didn't expect that anyone could figure it out. So that was a bit tongue in cheek.
 

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Thank you both. :You_Rock_Emoticon:




But I didn't expect that anyone could figure it out. So that was a bit tongue in cheek.


You know what? I totally get what you were saying. You weren't saying that this shit was something was good or that it was something that people needed to do. You were just showing it for all to see. They could laugh or whatnot it was all on them. You know, you aren't that bad of guy. People just attacked you for no reason! No damm reason! I laughed at this topic. This is true. But I didn't laugh at you, cause I knew what you wanted to say. And what you wanted to say was okay. You're basincreek are okay. in my book. Don't let them get you down..
 

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You know what? I totally get what you were saying. You weren't saying that this shit was something was good or that it was something that people needed to do. You were just showing it for all to see. They could laugh or whatnot it was all on them. You know, you aren't that bad of guy. People just attacked you for no reason! No damm reason! I laughed at this topic. This is true. But I didn't laugh at you, cause I knew what you wanted to say. And what you wanted to say was okay. You're basincreek are okay. in my book. Don't let them get you down..
Agree, the post was about a crazy plan by basin drunk friend, not him
 

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You know what? I totally get what you were saying. You weren't saying that this shit was something was good or that it was something that people needed to do. You were just showing it for all to see. They could laugh or whatnot it was all on them. You know, you aren't that bad of guy. People just attacked you for no reason! No damm reason! I laughed at this topic. This is true. But I didn't laugh at you, cause I knew what you wanted to say. And what you wanted to say was okay. You're basincreek are okay. in my book. Don't let them get you down..

Agree, the post was about a crazy plan by basin drunk friend, not him

Thanks guys. I'm glad some people got it and could get a laugh out of how dumb it was.