I've been thinking about this and I want to say something. Obviously getting laid is not the biggest of her problems. I'm sure getting back on her feet will be tough, even though she has a pretty good support system (friends, parents, sister). Most of her problems I can't help her with. The social part I think I can. When 2 girlfriends and I were sitting around talking about what we should do to help her out, the first thing that came up was we agreed to have a get-together the first few nights. We also said we'll try to get together and socialize more regularly than normal, because we want her to feel like she has a community. After that the issue of sex and guys came up. I thought that it might help her feel back in the swing of things to get a night out with a friendly, safe, good-looking guy who can show her a good time, and if she wants, could help her thoroughly satisfy any 2-year ache she might have. So my point is of course she has bigger issues that I can't help her much with. We were trying to figure out what we could help with, and me being a social animal, I thought of the social angle, and the sexual. I also have the benefit of knowing her, and knowing that she's always been a bit of a lusty, spontaneous gal. Of course I also have no idea what one feels when one goes through something like this. Anyway, I just wanted to explain some things. The way I wrote the original post may have made things seem more "cavalier" than they really are.