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You'll have to ask again in a few days :tongue: . She got out a couple wks ago. We were planning to make the intruduction after a few days but she told us to hold off because she wanted time to settle in. She said she didn't feel like inviting any pressures right now no matter how small. I can totally understand that so we tabled the idea. Then at T-giving yesterday (I had T-giving at her folks' house), we're chatting just the 2 of us and she slips in that suddenly a set-up with a nice, good-looking guy sounded really good. So we're going to try to all meet up and see what happens. Oooh I can't wait :biggrin1: .

ahhhhh, the plot (and your boy toy) thickens!!:tongue:
 

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Wow. Well, first, as I mentioned, we ended up choosing a different guy, not my neighbor/FWB. After thinking about it I realized that was too close to home and there was no need to pick him when we know other guys. But as for your characterization of my friend, shame on you. You don't know her at all, and, pardon me, but you don't know what the hell you're talking about. Prison record or not, she's a great catch. She's a load of fun, she's got a good mind, and she also happens to be one of my most attractive friends. No guy who hooks up with her will feel punished.
And, not that this is really the issue, but she got her jail term for dealing. Yeah she used a bit, but she was never the flustered mess we think of when we think of drug users. She was a recreational user who realized she could make a lot of money dealing and got carried away.
But like I said, you don't know her so really there's no point having this convo.

OK, whatever you say ? :rolleyes: All just minor character flaws I'm sure ?
 

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ahhhhh, the plot (and your boy toy) thickens!!:tongue:

Seriously. Like I said the guy we picked is someone one of my girlfriends had a fling with. I've seen pictures of him but I've still never met him. But she said she showed him a photo of the gal we're setting him up with and he seemed very excited.
 

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Seriously. Like I said the guy we picked is someone one of my girlfriends had a fling with. I've seen pictures of him but I've still never met him. But she said she showed him a photo of the gal we're setting him up with and he seemed very excited.

Let us know how the date worked out, I'm hoping for the best. And tell me when and where it takes place, I'll order a recce craft in position near their hotel room, or whereever they meet for the steamy part of the date, so you and me can be the flies on the wall ;-)

By the way, maybe a little quiz before: Will the bed rattle and shake because:

A: She rides him so hard the mattress sinks in a foot, while the rest of the bed oscillates with a magnitude two, three inches or

B: Because he pounds her so hard her butt will be carved into the mattress material?
 

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OK, whatever you say ? :rolleyes: All just minor character flaws I'm sure ?

I'm a little distressed at the lack of compassion from some people. First off, I wouldn't call them character flaws on her part. Personality flaws maybe. They aren't the same thing. She's honest and a good person and that makes her character very strong IMO. I'm not going to spend a whole lot of time defending her here since nobody here knows her. But the way I look at it different people deal with hard times differently. In her case she went through a bad divorce and she started using drugs recreationally because she wanted to feel good. Then once she realized the easy money available, the easy money became her addiction. Certainly I think what she did was foolish and very poor judgment, but I have a lot of friends and everyone has weaknesses. While she is my only friend who has been to jail, I don't think she's that different from anyone else. And if you had the chance to meet her you'd probably like her and you wouldn't think she has a poor character.
As a side note, I also don't happen to think anything she did should be illegal. She chose to put a substance into her body, and she provided some of it to willing adults. A big part of me is glad she got caught because she's clean now, but another part of me feels like she didn't deserve what she got.
 

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Let us know how the date worked out, I'm hoping for the best. And tell me when and where it takes place, I'll order a recce craft in position near their hotel room, or whereever they meet for the steamy part of the date, so you and me can be the flies on the wall ;-)
By the way, maybe a little quiz before: Will the bed rattle and shake because:

A: She rides him so hard the mattress sinks in a foot, while the rest of the bed oscillates with a magnitude two, three inches or​
B: Because he pounds her so hard her butt will be carved into the mattress material?​

LOL, Claire. Indeed, oh to be a fly on the wall. Say, the protective girlfriend in me insisted on meeting the guy. We're all getting together this weekend for drinks and perhaps IT will happen then. But yesterday I met the lucky guy that my other gf picked. He's quite a babe, seems like a nice guy, etc. And as I mentioned he used to have a fling with one of my friends and he passed the sex test, so he's approved in that area. :cool: To be honest, after all this buildup I just hope they hit it off and she has a good time. Don't get me wrong, I hope he's a sex god and she has 18 orgasms too. But mostly I just hope she has a good time.
 

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I guess she can be proud of you and your girls for standing by her after her prison sentence. Call me negative, but I guess one can't expect that from anybody.

So I see your girls are going to escort her and your guy to the date. I guess that is when it becomes crucial, maybe she's game with the plan, but putting it into reality will be something different. Hope your guy is nice enough not to push too hard if she decides to drop the matter for now. But let's just hope for the best, and that a bed will be added to the hotel tab. :biggrin1:
 

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So I see your girls are going to escort her and your guy to the date. I guess that is when it becomes crucial, maybe she's game with the plan, but putting it into reality will be something different. Hope your guy is nice enough not to push too hard if she decides to drop the matter for now. But let's just hope for the best, and that a bed will be added to the hotel tab. :biggrin1:

A group of 5 or 6 of us are going out for Fri. for drinks. Very low key and low pressure. Nobody's pushing anyone into bed. To tell you the truth, I think I've talked more about this set-up on this thread than in real life. It's really been a pretty low-key casual thing, even though from the way this thread has gone you wouldn't be able to tell. It's really not much different than your run of the mill set-up. Proposed the idea to the guy and the girl, arranged to go out in a group, have them meet, see if they hit it off, etc. It's just the sexually ravenous part of me that has the hopeful image of them hitting it off, lusting away, and ending the night by shagging like rabbits as he pulls out of her 21 months worth of retroactive orgasms. :biggrin1: :biggrin1:
 

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Seriously. NIC, what's that about your friends not giving great gifts? I gather you earned it, but still :biggrin1:

Probably it's more difficult for guys to pimp their fucky dates out to their buddies than it is to us wild girls pimping our fuck buddies out to our fellow lasses.

I guess the fact that you're dicussing this hook-up thing more here than with your girls is that you're all consenting about it, while it stirred quite a morale and feasibility discussion here. But in the end, that's what LPSG is always about.
 

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Probably it's more difficult for guys to pimp their fucky dates out to their buddies than it is to us wild girls pimping our fuck buddies out to our fellow lasses.

I guess the fact that you're dicussing this hook-up thing more here than with your girls is that you're all consenting about it, while it stirred quite a morale and feasibility discussion here. But in the end, that's what LPSG is always about.

LPSG is about debating morality? I thought it was about penis-waving and ego-stroking.

and, you really think that if a guy was trying to offer up a fuckbuddy of his to other guys it would be a hard sell? Really? Or am I reading your post wrong here? Most of the guys I know (with a few notable exceptions, including my two virginal best friends) would have sex with just about anything if it was offered to them. I would imagine it would be the opposite of what you said- i.e. harder to sell women on the idea of sleeping with a good past partner of yours, as women seem to be both slightly more selective and also more attached to the whole courtship ritual.
 

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Just for the pot - I have had many women ask me to help them find / introduce them to guys, but I can't recall a guy asking my opinion or help.

Because of what I just said, women are more selective, and they are thus more comfortable giving a guy a chance if he comes with a recommendaton from a trusted friend or acquaintance. Men, on the other hand, don't require this.
 

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Just for the pot - I have had many women ask me to help them find / introduce them to guys, but I can't recall a guy asking my opinion or help.

I think guys are far more likely to ask a platonic girl-friend or guy-friend's S.O. to set them up, not the guy-friend himself...

'cuz if a guy was even able to set his friend up with a sure thing, he'd more than likely try to keep her for himself...
 

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I think guys are far more likely to ask a platonic girl-friend or guy-friend's S.O. to set them up, not the guy-friend himself...

'cuz if a guy was even able to set his friend up with a sure thing, he'd more than likely try to keep her for himself...

Another very good, and true, point.
 

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Just for the pot - I have had many women ask me to help them find / introduce them to guys, but I can't recall a guy asking my opinion or help.

you mean they're asking you for help to get laid?? or just help in finding a guy? had plenty of girlfriends of mine as for a 'read' on a guy, or info about a guy friend of mine but none have asked specifically to get them a cock for hire. not that a few haven't hooked up AFTER the entirely innocent matchmaking, but i'm with the others above, doesn't happen nearly as much in the visa or the versa
 

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You misread me there. LPSG is about discussions, not necessarily on morality issues. But it is not as loose a place as I had imagined when I was still guesting here. I'd have imagined it wilder, in parts at least.

And another misreading on your part, I wasn't talking about men fucking anything coming along and not running of quickly enough. That's not the problem, but I guess the number of men having a problem with not being the exclusive number one with a woman is higher than those not bothering about it. Of course, that rules out the case of ex'es. Or maybe as hard as getting a woman to sleep with an ex-partner of yours. However, you must consider that women like me or Stud_Hunter are from a slightly different, rather rare breed. We would fuck anything offered to us, as long as it is of the right size. Nine Inches should do :biggrin1:

LPSG is about debating morality? I thought it was about penis-waving and ego-stroking.

and, you really think that if a guy was trying to offer up a fuckbuddy of his to other guys it would be a hard sell? Really? Or am I reading your post wrong here? Most of the guys I know (with a few notable exceptions, including my two virginal best friends) would have sex with just about anything if it was offered to them. I would imagine it would be the opposite of what you said- i.e. harder to sell women on the idea of sleeping with a good past partner of yours, as women seem to be both slightly more selective and also more attached to the whole courtship ritual.