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Lekiton

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I wanted to get some advice. I bet some of you are experts!

So I only came out a year ago. Before that I exclusively dated girls. I think that I come off as a bit boring in bed with guys because it’s quite new to me.

I mostly lay there and wank then off and they wank me off. I’ve had a few dates that have said they want me to be rough etc. Im not sure how to exactly do that or how to become less static in bed.

Any general advice would be appreciated!
 
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as @BillM said, there's a lot of territory to cover in answering your question including do you know what 'role' you are?

from the sounds of it that guy thought you were top if he was asking you to be a bit rougher?

It also depends on your age - like you i dated girls before coming out and fortunately for me my first real gay experience was with a guy who slowly introduced me to things and after that its about experimenting, finding out what works for you, the other guy, how to read the situation etc.

everyone starts somewhere though - whilst porn isn't 'real life' it can give you 'some' ideas of what you might like to try and what turns you on. There are literally 100s of advice channels on the internet including the lovely guys, gals and others here.

perhaps you need to frame your question a bit more specifically as to what you're looking for re advice - if you want to private and chat feel free, happy to answer any questions you have;-)
 
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When they say they want something like “rough” ask what they mean by that. Get them to talk their fantasy, and their real limits (and have some of your own).
Think about what interests you, what you’d like to try.
Think about whatever erotica you read/ watch.
If you are into something, that will breed enthusiasm.

just like when you dated women,