Hey, no respect to my gay brothers, but thought I'd share some of my experience. 1. Pussy Too Small? This is probably the biggest problem we face. Solutions like 'see a doctor' and 'just get her to relax' only go so far. You might want to invest in a dilator set, like this one: Vaginal Dilator Set - Pure Romance It can gently loosen your girl up over time, and if your in it for the long haul, really help the girl out. 2. Keeping Hard As someone has probably already mentioned, staying hard is a big problem for big cocks. Bigger cock means it needs more blood to stay erect. First off, the usual stuff. It doesn't make you any less of a man, it's a physiological problem. Second, it's not your girl's fault either. So, what works? Some guys object to pills, but for my money, it doesn't get much better than cialis. take half a pill, and that stuff'll last two whole days. Anyone else have any rec's on good pills? Course, the caveat is GET YOUR DOCTOR TO PRESCRIBE IT. Shady dealers is a bad road to go down, as they NEVER work and can actually hurt you. Most doc's are pretty accommodating, heck, I'm in my twenties and got a doc to prescribe me some. Oh, and also watch out, cuz the stuff can get kind of expensive. Some HMO's have it on their plans though. I know it's not really the 'best' solution, so does anyone else have any tips?