Sex Aid: Penetration Inhibiting Donuts

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  1. petite

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    I'm talking about those devices that prevent a man from penetrating too deep during sex. There's a discontinued product made by "Seymore Butts" that's cheap and can still be found online and another one by a company called Come Close.

    The last time I complained about him penetrating too deep, TheBoyfriend suggested that we try one of these out. I said I thought it might look silly, but he insisted that it doesn't matter and he doesn't care about that. My sweetie. :smile:

    Has anyone ever used any of these?

    Are there other brands that I don't know about?

    Do you recommend it?
     
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    I haven't used one, however i'm curious to see what people say.
     
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    Yes, I hurt my wife during intercourse in certain positions. Have not used the product but rather modify my strokes in consideration of her. Works for us.
     
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    He does that, or he tries his best, but over the last few months I've noticed that he seems to be getting more and more, uh, enthusiastic in bed. When I brought it up the last time we were having sex that he seems to be progressively trying to go deeper and deeper and it's progressively hurting me more and more, he suggested that maybe we should try some of those donuts to see if that solves the problem.
     
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    Guys like to sometimes slam away and if we can't it can be a bit frustrating for us too. A donut may solve it because at the very least if it keeps that last inch or inch and a half from hitting the "deep end" he can pound away as much as he wants! You never know, you may be loving to get pounded good and love the donut. Give it a try!
     
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    Maybe that's what he's thinking! I bet he'd really love the freedom to be able to do pound away as hard as he wants to without having to worry about hurting me.

    I'd really like to know if anyone has tried either of these products or if there's an even better one out there than those two.
     
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    I have no experience with this.

    I met a couple where the guy had a supposed 9" cock. The wife said they used two donuts when they had sex. I had never heard of this before. I then found them in the local sex shop. I think they have the Seymour Butts ones. Looks like it would work, it worked for this couple.
     
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    Since no one can review either of these products, I'll probably get the Seymour Butts one first, since it's a lot cheaper and it's sold at a store that has lots of other stuff I wanted to buy also. I can make a bulk purchase of toys. :biggrin1:

    I asked TheBF last night if he would really enjoy the freedom to be able to fuck as hard as he wanted without having to worry about hurting me and he said that he really would. He was really funny about it, too. So I'm going to buy them.
     
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    Please forgive me for bumping this, but does anyone have any experience with these things?
     
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    I'm sorry I can't help you
    well I can help you by numbing your vagina but you have a boyfriend and don't know me all that well so I should say, I can't help you with your inquery
     
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    Unfortunately, I don't know much either, but I do Cause pain for my woman with my length, so I'm going to check it out as well. Unfortunately I don't see girth options.
     
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    That's part of my concern. There are two different ones, and neither appears to give any information on girth. I really want to know about comfort and functionality.
     
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    Bump to find out if anyone can answer the original questions:

    Does anyone have any actual experience with either one of these two products?

    If you do, what is the inner diameter and height of the product?

    Is it comfortable?

    Do you feel like it works?
     
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    You could try emailing the manufacturer for these details.
     
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    That was a good idea. I got a response from Come Close.

     
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    Finally a good reason for having an average size..

    I will never have to buy a doughnut...:biggrin1:


    Petite you are so awesome...do you have a twin sister?
     
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    Aw, that's sweet! :kiss:

    No, I'm sorry, I don't have a twin sister.
     
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    I'm a fairly long term user of donuts and would recommend them. If you aren't the sort of guy who can exercise total self control at all times, wearing one doughnut or more at the base of your cock will make it possible for you to thrust in hard without holding back in the fear that your partner could experience pain or worse from very deep penetration.

    I think they should be part of any very well endowed man's equipment, unless he knows that his partner can take him fully or that he can hold back. For those like me without self control they are great.

    The ones mentioned look pretty good to me. Better that than the wound round towels and rubber rings we started with. They are only an inch thick from the description on the website so some people may need more than one. I like the irony of the name 'Come Close' ... If you need two or three donuts the truth is very obviously the opposite - don't come too close.
     
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    They responded quickly! Two inches sounds like it would fit almost anyone!
     
  20. musclebare9

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    We typically use a rolled up towel. It gets laid across her if she is down or kind of hung on me like a towel rack in doggy position. It's convenient for clean-up too.
     
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