Any of you guys who are screwing your wife or your girlfriend do so with a butt plug in yourself? My wife sometimes stimulates my anus, and she knows I really like it. I have some plugs and have encouraged her to use them on me. She's been a bit reluctant. I was thinking about just putting one in before we get to it. Any of you try this? Good sensation? Your wife or girlfriend approve? I worry it would be a bit messy in the bed.