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This is a question for all guys... Just curious!!!
Since women take longer to reach orgasm than men,
When you are having sex with your girlfriend/wife and you are ready to ejaculate/orgasm, but your girl is not, what do you do to avoid cumming and hold 'till she's ready to orgams? What if you want to go for a long time without cumming and extend your "adventure"? Do you just cumm and keep going?

For gay guys, what do you do to avoid cumming to quick when having sex? Answer questions above if they also apply.
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try switching to oral for a little while. i also heard that if you edge while you masturbate you get a greater control over your ejaculations during sex. but i dont edge much so i cant attest to that.
 

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focus focus focus. if you start thinking about cumming, then you will cum. also, if you have developed the ability to control your pc muscle, you will be able to last much longer. hope this helps
 

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Cum and keep going or cumming! :biggrin1:
sex should be fun not work.
the only reason to hold off your load is to gain more pleasure for yourself or because you know you can't have a repeat performance.
Your woman will have more than 1 orgasm so why not you?
Shoot off your load, concentrate on your woman and when she cums you will be ready to cum again.

AFAIK, Gay men don't hold back their cum. The cum shot is what they work for, what they look for, what they want and there is almost always a repeat performance although not usually in the same oriface. :biggrin1:
 

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Stop fucking at that moment, change position and try to synchronize yours with her orgasm.... It's a great if you manage...4 me, no problem to proceed as much as my body can stand, as the cock seems to be my toughest part :)
 

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I stop or delay thrusting and change position. I also press my perineus, it often helps. Glans stimulation brings me way closer to orgasm, so if I have to delay it, I avoid having it rubbed (like it happens with long thursts or when only the head is in).

Anyway I usually have the opposite problem...
 

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Switch up positions, or better yet, I always make sure my partner has cum at least once or twice before thinking of me getting off, the more my partner gets off , the hotter it gets for me. Usually love to watch her cum and then slow down the f...ing and enjoy, then get her off at least one more time before going in for the big one!, as for with a man, most men just want to get off and watch it shoot, then they are good, I usually like to see him get off first so I can concentrate on me!
 

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I've tried a lot of the suggestions above, and a lot of them work. In general, though, coming too soon isn't a big issue for me, because I rarely do, but if it happens, it happens. You work around it. Worrying about it always makes it worse. I can stay hard after, so I generally either keep fucking or let her know and then give her some attention with my fingers or tongue while I get ready for more.
 

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make her wet and horny before entering her.
take a break. lick her in between.....
think about things u hate to make u "unhorny".
 

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my dick stays hard after i cum so i dont really worry about it... i can get off several times b4 i go limp... then i wait 10 minutes and start over...
 

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I have to agree with the posters that suggest getting the girl "ready" before you even enter her.

I get off on getting my girl really excited with foreplay. Usually she is about ready to melt by the time I even start fucking her. I can make her cum a couple of times before I do.
 
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Switch positions. It takes much longer when she is on top.
 

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In my experience, most men with 7" or more take forever to cum so I really can't speak to this. :redface:

Holy shit.

I never thought there is a correlation.

Is it really like that? Bigger guys take longer to cum?

I can last forever and usually must be finished with a handjob.