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Curious to know how you guys feel about being woken up with/for sex?

I'm a bit of a vampire, in that, I tend to stay up much later than my boyfriend and sometimes the mood strikes me to jump his bones when he's sleeping. There have been a few times I've walked into the bedroom for something and I'll notice that he has an erection as he's sleeping and the temptation is enormous just to get all over him. I've only acted on these impulses a few times. Usually I'll pretend to be going to bed and cuddle up against him in hopes he'll wake up enough so I can act on it. If it does happen the sex is almost always really fantastic from him. It as if his inhibitions are lost in his grogginess and he's really aggressive and dominating in his actions. As if I poked and angered a sleeping bear with a stick. I know he likes the sex but I feel bad that I'm waking him considering he works and goes to school and needs his sleep. Do you think I'm being selfish? Are you annoyed when your partner wakes you for sex?
 
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lol, there's this weird feeling for me that when I'm asleep and getting used for sex that makes me feel like I'm being treated like a piece of meat. Once I was sleeping with a friend and I was exhausted and he kept touching and playing with me. I was far too tired to fully wake up to do anything but I sort of enjoyed the feeling and sorta being "used" in a way in this mode.

When I'm in bed with my boyfriend and we're ready to sleep, we still have our affectionate stuff going on. I also gave him permission to use me if I'm sleeping. So... yeeeaaah. lol
 

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Socalfreak hit the nail on the head. It would communicate a wonderful message of desire to be woken up for sex.

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That would be interesting. I am not sure how I would react but I doubt I will shove her aside...
 

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My wife has done that a couple of times. I have already told her, I am ready any time and any where, so when I am suddenly awakened in the night by her getting on top of me, I am ready. As for work the next day, not a problem, I am in such a good mood, I don't care about the lost sleep.

I just wished it worked the other way, me waking her up in the middle of the night.
 
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Curious to know how you guys feel about being woken up with/for sex?

I'm a bit of a vampire, in that, I tend to stay up much later than my boyfriend and sometimes the mood strikes me to jump his bones when he's sleeping. There have been a few times I've walked into the bedroom for something and I'll notice that he has an erection as he's sleeping and the temptation is enormous just to get all over him. I've only acted on these impulses a few times. Usually I'll pretend to be going to bed and cuddle up against him in hopes he'll wake up enough so I can act on it. If it does happen the sex is almost always really fantastic from him. It as if his inhibitions are lost in his grogginess and he's really aggressive and dominating in his actions. As if I poked and angered a sleeping bear with a stick. I know he likes the sex but I feel bad that I'm waking him considering he works and goes to school and needs his sleep. Do you think I'm being selfish? Are you annoyed when your partner wakes you for sex?

I told my girlfriend last week "never let my sleep get in the way of sex." LOL.

Does that answer your question?
 

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With that said, maybe it would be annoying... especially if it was a daily thing and you were wrecking a sleep pattern nightly.

But if it is occasional I'd be hard pressed to see that as something being brought up in a breakup/divorce... "she woke me up for sex."

But then again, I know guys who are sexually unhappy because she wants it too much. :confused:
 
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I can partially awake meself when I notice an erection comin during me sleep. I get about 3 or 4 during me night and wee hours of the morn. :eek:)

I use to roll over and slip me cock between an ol gf legs and keep it warm n toasty. Sometimes she'd awake and be nice with her offerings. Some women prefer not to be bothered as sleep is usually short to begin with.

Men can sleep, women seem to sleep only for 4 to 6 hours at the most. Which I don't mind being ridden while the other half of me still wants to party. :eek:)~
 

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My GF wakes me up in the morning with a BJ and this is great! I told her she can wake me up for sex whenever she likes, but she says I'm too cute sleeping :D
 

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I think it would be fun, I have a very deep sleep so i dont guarranty that i wake up.
If i really have to rest and you wake me up i really dont know.
 

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I appreciate all the responses guys. Always nice peek behind the curtain and see the male sexual psyche from the point of strangers. There's an honesty and objectivity found in strangers that you may not get from someone close to you. Sometimes I think (I know) my boyfriend tells me things just because he doesn't want to hurt my feelings. I thought he wasn't being entirely honest in this case. He was like most of you, "anytime babe." Not that I'm being coy when I say I don't know. I know he likes the sex but I feel a couple of times when I have woken him up he's let out a sigh like, "Geez, couldn't you have let me know 3 hours ago when I was awake?" From what I've read you all like it it's just that doing it regularly (which I don't) would be seen as being purposely annoying. Less about sex and more about my own selfish attention. Also, I would never wake him up, if say, he had a important test or job interview or had to get up early the next day.

I did get him this morning sometime after 2 a.m.. Started as it usually does, I slip under the covers for a little soft & slow sucky-sucky on one of his raging sleep time hard-ons, and then we fucked fast and furious for about 30 minutes. I'd say he got about six hours sleep last night total but you wouldn't know it, as one of the posters mentioned, he had happy feet (among other appendages) this morning and was all over me. We ended up having another quickie in the kitchen before he headed off to classes. Twas heaven. We've had some of the best sex lately and I think it's because we never set a time but just let each other get busy when the mood strikes us. There's a high level of passion that spontaneity provides. You know what I mean? =)
 
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As stated from others, it would be great and amazing. Although if it were to happen very often it may get annoying, especially if he does have to get up early.
 

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I am never upset being woken up with sex as long as I don't have something really important the next day.

I always love waking up to my dick being sucked though I have never been asleep enough to have woken up to someone actually having sex with me, but I would approve.



Curious to know how you guys feel about being woken up with/for sex?

I'm a bit of a vampire, in that, I tend to stay up much later than my boyfriend and sometimes the mood strikes me to jump his bones when he's sleeping. There have been a few times I've walked into the bedroom for something and I'll notice that he has an erection as he's sleeping and the temptation is enormous just to get all over him. I've only acted on these impulses a few times. Usually I'll pretend to be going to bed and cuddle up against him in hopes he'll wake up enough so I can act on it. If it does happen the sex is almost always really fantastic from him. It as if his inhibitions are lost in his grogginess and he's really aggressive and dominating in his actions. As if I poked and angered a sleeping bear with a stick. I know he likes the sex but I feel bad that I'm waking him considering he works and goes to school and needs his sleep. Do you think I'm being selfish? Are you annoyed when your partner wakes you for sex?