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Oralgami15

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As my 20 year marriage was falling apart and I was frustrated by being involuntarily celibate, I began to fool around with the secretaries where I worked. There were three altogether, two married and one recently dumped by her long term boyfriend. It was fun at first but soon emotional entanglements, jealousness and the danger of being caught by my wife, a husband or management made it untenable. Worse, one of the women warned me that the one I was then seeing was involved with another guy in the office. I thought she was jealous but she was actually correct. Moreover, while I was seeing her, she showed her supervisor an email I wrote questioning her about seeing the other guy. She said that she didn’t want to make a complaint against me but what using it as an example of people in the office talking about her. Despite her not wanting me to be spoken to (most likely so I wouldn’t know I’d been thrown under the bus), I was spoken to by the senior partner who framed his discussion more as a heads up rather than a more serious complaint.

My advice is not to fool around with co-workers. It isn’t likely to end well.
 
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I've asked to few ladies I knew from work out. They rejected me. I even had one or two try to make a sexual harassment complaint against me just because I asked them out. So I don't approach anybody I know from work, and while I'm working. And I stay as far away from any sexual topic as possible when interacting with the females at work. I guess the moral of the story is "don't shit where you eat".
 
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Since I was in my late teens I've hooked up with Co workers .. never had a problem. I guess fortunately, I've never come across the people like some of you have. We've always had a great time .. some were just there once .. some went on for a while .. no one caught feelings. It was just fun.
 

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Its kind of odd, but I went a solid 5 years only hooking up with, or dating women from work. There was a short period of time where I was hooking up with three women from three different departments in the same building. I remember I hooked up with one on a Saturday, another that Sunday then the third on Monday. I ended up dating the girl from Monday for a while. One of them even forgot her underwear in my bed, and another found them. She was kind of pissed, but my female roommate came to the rescue and said they were hers. haha. Talk about a wing woman!

I had a bit of a reputation as one of them explained it "a safe slut." She said, I know we could date and it would be fun, but I also know you're cool with just hooking up and you don't make a big deal about it or tell other people. So I guess they all felt like they could just call me to hook up when they needed to and it wouldn't get awkward. And they were right. No one ever knew, I don't even think they new about one another. Still friends with them all, actually on a softball team with one of them. haha.
 
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