Well, if my husband ever watched porn he's forgotten it, thankfully! But that's not to say that he never went over the top, so to speak. Almost always he's very considerate to the point of being apologetic about being tight, hard, fast, whatever.
But our first experience with Viagra has become literally and figuratively a sore point in our relationship. He had a new toy, and the toy had to be satisfied. Now some days it's ME time and some days it's Cap time. This was definitely a Cap time and Me be damned. We never had a safe word because we don't do that type of stuff. And I was reluctant to say no because I thought it might get better. But I think a baseball bat would have been more gentle.
We have learned that chemical assistance must be handled properly, and we know how now. I still think about that little boy look on his face after being reprimanded and how incongruous it was with that mini-telephone pole sticking straight out.
Pain is not in our repertoire.
But our first experience with Viagra has become literally and figuratively a sore point in our relationship. He had a new toy, and the toy had to be satisfied. Now some days it's ME time and some days it's Cap time. This was definitely a Cap time and Me be damned. We never had a safe word because we don't do that type of stuff. And I was reluctant to say no because I thought it might get better. But I think a baseball bat would have been more gentle.
We have learned that chemical assistance must be handled properly, and we know how now. I still think about that little boy look on his face after being reprimanded and how incongruous it was with that mini-telephone pole sticking straight out.
Pain is not in our repertoire.
