A friend of mine recently accompanied a friend of hers to Tailand so they could have a male to female sex change op. I don`t know this person, and am not likely to meet them. My friend has told me about them and their trip, and a couple of issues that arrose that got me thinking. My friends friend is obviously taking this whole thing very seriously. They have read etiquate(sp) books, is obviously trying hard to act womanly. They started to criticise my friend for her lack of female etiquate(SP), and she replied that the way she sat/acted/responded to others did not affect her womanliness. The next issue that arrose when they were preparing for surgery, and the surgeon asked how deep a vagina was needed and recomended 4-5 inches. My friend thought this seemed small, her friend asked her how deep she was, which she wasn`t really able to answer. Which got me thinking men know exactly how big/how they compare to others, we have no idea. So my questions to you are; What is it that makes you a woman? Is it how you were born, how you were brought up,how you look, or whatever? Are there things you do to make you more of a woman? Have you any idea of how long/deep your vagina is and how this compares to others?