Bathhouses are great, All are there for the sex. So many dicks. Sucked many dicks in them. Don't want to know them, or their names, just want their cocks.
Sex Clubs And Bathhouses
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I’ve never been to a bathhouse or Sauna but the thought keep coming up in my mind... is there, like, a right mindset to have going to these places?
Just go and enjoy....if you expect you'll be on a porn set or get the best sex of your life you'll likely be disappointed.
My mindset is - I enjoy going to these places to chill out, and be nude with other guys - they can be very social spaces. If more happens and I get sex, that's a bonus for sure. If you're just looking for a fuck, a full on sex club might be the better option (if you have any in your area).
A lot of people are having sex behind closed doors/in private rooms, so it is not always a great place to be voyeur except on a really crowded night (which is hard to predict). So pick a night that you want to fuck or get fucked. I’d also think about what turns you on. For instance, do you just want sex or do you want to show off to others as a guy uses you?
I also recommend just asking for what you want. You will likely be pleasantly surprised that people give you it because they are there for similar reasons.
A fantasy of mine was sucking off a group of men in the steamroom. I thought it was a long shot and once I sucked my first cock, more and more filled my mouth at Steamworks in the ground floor steamroom. A different time I just wanted the thrill of being fucked anon through a gloryhole. So in Chicago, you can go to the third floor and go into a private room and get fucked through a gloryhole while you swallow a cock through another one. I have an exhibitionist streak every now and again.
If you like that then plan to fuck for an audience. Bathhouses are perfect for that because there are a lot of voyeurs. Assume that those voyeurs will feel entitled to grope you. If you’re not into that, just be prepared to brush them off so you can enjoy being watched as you’re fucked in a sling by some men. It doesn’t have to be a sling. I’ve never done that, but I have been fucked standing up in more public spaces at Steamworks and was really turned on knowing that guys were jerking off to my buddy filling my ass. You have to be in the mood to show off to enjoy it. Otherwise I would just recommend fucking at home with a guy from Grindr
Der Boiler is hot. A lot of blonde Germans and really sex Turkish guys with thick cocks. They have a dark cabin area that was popular. You can suck or fuck as much as you want by keeping the door ajar or shutting. If you’re in the mood to show off your body while fucked, the shower area was the best for that.
i didn’t go to the bar area but people would also just hang out there between fucks.
have been in a circle of guys and sucked them all..
Was in a sling room, legs up in the air being fucked by a guy and sucking a dick and holding two others. Three of them fucked me in it. I loved it as I'm a total cock slut and love being used like a female whore
He said regulars that go several times a week.. that’s funny…Wouldn’t they get tired of it?
Seriously, there are some who go to a few saunas nearly everyday, if not every day. There are quite a few hard core regulars out there.
Oh trust I believe you.. I would assume one would get tired of it after a while.. I hear you talking. I could imagine you thinking “Damn, don’t you have something else to do?” Lol
In my experience regulars aren't there for socialisation and chance of sex if they meet someone compatible. They're usually seeking as many guys and the hottest guys for self validation and it becomes a predatory game if they're competitive with other regulars.
It's why i love bathhouses. I love to have an audience and then have them join in, being fucked while sucking another dick is what i really enjoy.
I've been to a bathhouse for the first time this December. I went there mainly to satisfy my exhibitionism. It was a Sunday and was very crowded. Every one walked around covered with a towel and undressed only for the shower or the jacuzzi. Me on the other hand I loved hanging out naked while drying off, and showing off my half-boner as much as I could. Had also the chance to lay down in the sauna with a hard on. Very satisfying.
I also went to the downstairs darkroom and got felt up a lot, but it's definitely too dark for my liking. Still, I enjoyed being sucked off by a random dude.
I was there with my boyfriend; we wanted to finish things off our way so we went to a room, left the door open, and started 69ing. Sadly it ended on a bad note because a guy walked up to us and started touching us; I politely asked him to stop since we only wanted to be watched , but he got furious and made a scene :/
Other than that last sour note it was a really cool experience; I can't wait to do it again.
I also went to the downstairs darkroom and got felt up a lot, but it's definitely too dark for my liking. Still, I enjoyed being sucked off by a random dude.
I was there with my boyfriend; we wanted to finish things off our way so we went to a room, left the door open, and started 69ing. Sadly it ended on a bad note because a guy walked up to us and started touching us; I politely asked him to stop since we only wanted to be watched , but he got furious and made a scene :/
Other than that last sour note it was a really cool experience; I can't wait to do it again.
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I’ve been to bathhouses in Amsterdam and Frankfurt, both were great experience. No pressure, great variety and a good place for sex and relaxation. Looking to visit some in the US. Any suggestions?
About the comments on 'regulars' in saunas/bathouses - don't forget, despite these more enlightened times, many men feel, for whatever reason, they cannot be themselves in their day to day lives. Saunas allow them to at least satisfy their sexual needs, or just be with other men who have the same feelings.
I know many regulars in the one I use - and quite a few are there because they are in the closet, are married to a woman or whatever - and the sauna is their only outlet to be with other men for sex, or just hang nude and be social.
Saunas may be mostly about sex but it's not 100% sex only - there's a strong social element for many people who go on a regular basis.
I know many regulars in the one I use - and quite a few are there because they are in the closet, are married to a woman or whatever - and the sauna is their only outlet to be with other men for sex, or just hang nude and be social.
Saunas may be mostly about sex but it's not 100% sex only - there's a strong social element for many people who go on a regular basis.
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Crew Club in DC was fun i got about 18 loads there just from walking around, glory holes, being mounted while sucking other guys. Lima in Vegas is fun too- i had less luck walking around but once I got into a sling i got about 24 loads in about 2 hrs. Pure bliss both times!
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I go to a gay spa about once a month. It's one of the few places I can be naked with other guys and just take some 'time out'. Sometimes it just amounts to chatting in the sauna/steam/hottub area and stroking to one of the porn screens upstairs. Other times I go further and suck some cock in one of the gloryholes. They also have a room with two slings which is great for watching some live action. A few times I've been brave enough to try out a sling for myself. Feeing weightless and exposed in a room full of hard dicks was amazing.
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I have been to both sex clubs and bathhouses, when I have been out of town on business. Depending on the day and crowd on that day, they can be fun. They can be boring too, if you hit one on the wrong day.
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