Sex, Conquest, Fidelity.

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Chick&2DicksUK, Apr 11, 2008.

  1. Chick&2DicksUK

    Chick&2DicksUK New Member

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    If we lived in a totally promiscuous and blameless/jealously-free world.

    A world where you could walk down the street, find someone sexually attractive, invite them for sex and they would never say "No".

    Or be sat in a boardroom for a presentation and decide you wanted to screw the person conducting the presentation. There and then. In front of the group who would not even bat an eyelid and find it no less acceptable than if you'd taken a sip of water.

    Would it take an edge off sex?

    Do you enjoy coffee, or cream cakes, or a plate loaded with beautifully cooked vegetables any the less because they are both legal and socially acceptable?

    Would sex be less interesting if it were more easy to engage in?
     
  2. The Dragon

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    I think that if you were born into that sort of culture then it would be just the natural and expected thing to do.
    There would be no illicit rush of doing the wrong thing and enjoying it for that reason.
    In the case you put forward, you find someone attractive, you get a desire for them and it is satisfied in the same moment with hardly a second thought.
    Sex would still be intresting but on a diffrent level.
     
  3. Phil Ayesho

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    Sex would be dull--- with as much thought involved as taking a piss.
    Get up, whip out yer dick, take car of business, put it back.


    That's not to say it would not be pleasurable... who doesn't enjoy a fierce piss?

    But without the elaboration... the interplay, the nuance of attraction, rejection, titillation and escapade....

    well... no one would ever write a book, play, movie or song about it....
     
  4. HazelGod

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    I tend to agree.

    If every meal were a perfectly seared filet mignon and every wine tasted like a '98 Chateauneuf, they would lose most of their allure.

    The value of any commodity lies in its relative scarcity.
     
  5. Love-it

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    It would be hard to get any business done.

    Sexually attractive people would never get anywhere.

    Pregnancies would be through the roof.
     
  6. marleyisalegend

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    and STD's, been even if we ignored those since it's a "perfect word", i'm with everybody else, i'd get bored quickly. and me personally i'd lose all my teeth because
    A) my aunt and her husband start feeling frisky at a family reunion
    B) my 56 year old boss whips out his johnson and starts banging colleagues in the middle of a meeting

    this would cause excessive vomiting leading to the decay of all my teeth. i'm glad that sex is a behind closed doors thing (though public is fun sometimes)
     
  7. whatireallywant

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    Another thing I'd have to mention for this "perfect world" is that no one would be a psycho and no one has to worry about winding up dead in a ditch.

    I've had fantasies about the very scenario that the OP describes!
     
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    Some do live in that world...others window shop.
     
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