Do you think that sex should be considered an act of kindness and it helps others feel good. Like if somebody hooks up alot , they say that persons a sex addict and only cares about himself or they associate it as a filthy act or an act of lust, however many men hook up and have lots of sex with lots of people to really help the person they're having sex with and be kind to them . If the persons had a bad day or is depressed , sex helps elevate that. Giving them hope. Like giving somebody a present , its just how adults show love to each other.