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That's why good communication is key in a relationship. A while back, I got involved with one of my friends, and after messing around a bit, I realized that I had misconstrued the situation. She just wanted me for the whole physical thing, and I was looking for a relationship. Needless to say, our friendship was damaged by that and we don't hang out as much now. Talk with your significant other about your feelings towards sex, otherwise things can just get nasty in a hurry.
 

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Lee_M said:
Im glad to hear that. I find now also with no relatioship im maturbating usually at least once a day and considering ive heard some guys say they can go a week or so without it i though i was abnormal, especially for a female and always being so horny

a week without it? i get agitated if i go a day without it.
 

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Well, I know for sure what doesn't work for me. For my ex, twice a week was pushing it and he wasn't really big on foreplay, so even that didn't last very long. I actually learned a lot about myself, my body, my erogenous zones AFTER we broke up. It started with the spontaneous orgasm I had reading the erotic Sleeping Beauty book by Anne Rice aka A.N. Roquelare (discussed in an earlier thread) and led me to some serious self-exploration. I am single now, and I love both my Rabbit vibrator and my shower massager - and try to spend some quality time with each several hours a week. :wink:

BTW, my ex and I broke up for other reasons, but I for sure believe that sexual compatibility both impacts and reflects other aspects of the relationship.
 

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I agree with everyone that communication is the key. I have never been in a relationship where the girl has wanted it as often as I have. I have accepted the fact that my sex drive is higher then normal but it hasn't negatively affected my relationships. I think I would be more upset if the women I was with was "going through the motions" instead of saying she was tired. Not that i would complain to much. :)jk I am single now and would love to find someone that was compatible with me in that way but 2/3 times a day isn't realistic for most women, at least the ones I have met so far.