Sex drought

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  1. magnum_xl8

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    Ok I have only had sex with one girl my ex. After I broke up with her all i focused on was school and work. I havent had sex in 2+ yrs after having sex for almost 1.5yrs. Im going crazy. Oh and a topic for discussion how long of a drought have you had?
     
  2. Heather LouAnna

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    uuuu you need to GET OUT. I giess the longest I went was two years. I lost my virginity at 16 and didn't have sex again until I was 18. Since then it's been a pretty monthly thing. hehe
     
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    I do GET OUT. lol I just don't have any "game". I mean I want to have sex I went from having sex almost everyday with my ex to zero. So now I jerk off at least once a day just to stay sane lol.
     
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    droughts like that are for monks. I've been there, but never for that long.

    must have been a tough break up.
     
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    Not really It just dragged on one of those high school love things but she was CRAZY. Like I want to marry you right away CRAZY.
     
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    I've found that people who feel that way are insecure and afraid of being lonely.
     
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    Oh then that was my ex. She got a new "boyfriend" like a month after we broke up and shes ingaged with him. I think its funny.
     
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    I am suprised you don't get any, why not acccent your bulge making it a little more obvious you are packing. That might bring some chicks your way.
     
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    You wanna talk about droughts. I was married for 5 years! No sex AND I had to hide my jerk off sessions!
     
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    lol....That doesn't normally work for me. Noticing the guy has some package is a plus though. I certainly don't stand around at the bar/night club wishing I was a midget so I could get a closer look at all the pickle packages about the place.

    Maybe you should try a new colonge.

    "It's called Sex Panther, by Odeon. It's made from bits of real panther, so you know it's good! They've done studies you know. Sixty percent of the time, it works everytime."
     
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    Well, I gotta agree with Woody Allen on masturbation, at least it's sex with someone you love.

    (And possibly respect.)
     
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    Oh yes I want to smell like gasonline. I am a grower not a shower so there isn't a buldge to "show off". I go to clubs I go to partys etc. I just never brag about my package. I found that the guys that would brag were bragin about nothin.
     
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    What really sucks is when the drought is lifelong :D

    part deleted: misinterpretted something.

    Slade
     
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    One thing about self pleasuring a.k.a. masturbation is that it is safe sex.

    I have never had a long drought, but I was prevented from full blown sexual intercourse during military deployments. That is when the Navy Standard Shower took on major impact.

    Wet Down/Soap Up/Rub Down/Dry Up. We all learned to save water this way, but it was also a safe and secure way to reduce sexual tension. Of course I was in well before the integrated crews on Ships.
     
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    My sex Draught started when I figured out I could suck myself off, I so desperately wanted someone else to at least try, and ended college freshman year, when I had a roommate and his girlfriend that were into 3-ways.

    Just out of curiosity, is a Sex Monsoon the opposite of a Sex Draught?
     
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    5 years and counting
     
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    I'm in a drought ON PURPOSE. Not that I've chosen celibacy or anything but, well, let's be honest: most men suck in bed and have disappointing penises. Women never know what they're going to encounter in a man sexually. There's a whole list of disappointments I'd rather avoid right now. I value myself too much to hook up randomly with some 3 minute dude with 4 inches.
     
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    Me too, I have been celibate for 2 years exactly!!!!

    I wanted to avoid any relationships for a while so that I could be a bit selfish and buy an appartment! Not spending much money going out and doing the things that couples do really helped my finances, so I have no regrets. It would have been good to have had a fuck buddy but I couldn't find one.

    I haven't just been wanking during this time, I have made my dick 1.25" longer and 0.25" thicker with PE exercises.

    Last time I had sex I was 7.5"x5.5" and it was the best sex I have ever had so next time I will really discover if bigger is better!
     
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    i dont ever remember anytime in my life i have 'gone without' since i first started fuckin boys at 15.

    9 years later, i'd say practice really does make perfect.
     
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