My experience from the standpoint of a 25 year old heterosexual male (24, 25 in July but close enough).
Well here goes my lists both for ways to get a woman to cum and a way to achieve my orgasms:
WAYS TO MAKE A WOMAN ORGASM
As many of us know there are many woman out there who claim they have never received an orgasm thru intercourse. Sometimes, there is an event in their past that hinders them from being able to achieve satisfaction thru the act of sex. Hence it is our job as a male (or female) to be able to navigate not only their sexual conscious but their emotional conscious as related to the act of sex before expecting to achieve glorious results.
My first recommendation for satisfying your partner is to ask directly their preferences. Sometimes this is rather hard to do, before formally being engaged in the act. One great way to slip it into the talk is to begin with a less than erotic position and merely whisper a cue into your lovers patient ear. Maybe something as simple as, "where would you like it next?" A statement like this not only opens the sexual conversation to their desires but also puts you in a less than dominant position (especially for a male). With proper feedback the next stage of both emotional and physical pleasure is much easier to achieve. After a good deal of sexually pleasing them in their position re-evaluate the situation. If the intercourse is beginning to obtain the desired sexual response in your partner then keep it up. If not, maybe you need to take the actions and positions into your own hands. Here is where, I will offer direct suggestions with regard to some positions for Male on Female sexual activity:
1. Most female (I have encountered) do not acheive orgasms via doggy style. This is not to say all because some enjoy the smacking sensation of the male testicles on the clitoris.
2. I personally, would recommend a positional where the male lays on his back while the female rides at her pace and will. Spice things up with a little dirty talk and let the female masturbate some, this is especially good for those females who have never achieved an orgasm thru intercourse. I found this to be a way for the female to express herself the way she wants, and allows her to slowly achieve the orgasm under her own free will and accord. (With a little talk incentive from you of course)
3. Time cures all wounds, I have never found a female who didnt like a nice long dicking. With that I mean you need to basically pace yourself and let the activities go a bit longer. Most men orgasm faster than females hence you will need to allow the female "juices to flow" and let them do their thing before you, as the male, achieve your orgasm. Hell, you might even become obessed like me with seeing how long you can last.
4. Lick it, Lick it, Lick it.....can never go wrong with some great head.
5. Lick, stick it, Lick it, stick it....A nice tease that puts shows the female its all about her and you just wanna use your cock as a mere tool for her pleasure.
For now, I will leave my post as this. Again, remember this is written as a male looking to please a female from my perspective. I am open to the homosexual viewpoint, but generally do not write from it. Enjoy!
-LongNights-
ps- To get me off, I wanna see a girl cum 5-20 times...then I will release an ungodly load where and when she wants. Pleasing is my teasing....
