Ok...here's the deal. A me and a guy have been talking on the phone for a while. He's 25 and we've never met. He asks me to come over this Saturday and i'm kinda borderline No but then he says "I'll give you 700 bucks to have sex with you without a condom". He knows i'm on birth control. 700 dollars is good money but I can't be 100% that he's STD free. I asked him and of course he said he's clean. Nothing has ever lead me to believe that he may have an STD but its always in the back of my mind. I think its because he's someone I don't know. I've had unprotected sex with bf's with little thought. Then as we were talking more he confesses that he's really 39. He keeps asking me am I coming over. I still don't say no....but i don't say yes. Then we decide to exchange pics. He's ugly as hell.....really ugly! Next thing I know he's talking about lets have a baby. This is a guy i've never met. I tell him thats out of the question. He asks why and I tell him I can't afford a child and I don't plan on having any for atleast 10 years. He tries to persuade me by saying that he has a job making 55,000 dollars a year not including overtime. My parents were married and my father was a deadbeat dad so his job doesn't mean anything to me. I tell him that its not just money and that I don't want that embarassment on my family. I'll be like half of the girls in Baltimore who are knocked up. He finally realizes that i won't let him get me pregnant and drops it. He's still pressuring me for this Sunday though. I don't know what to do. I do need money to go back to school and for my books but the are also the cons. Any suggestions?
I was kinda skeptical about asking for advice because I didn't know if asking for advice about something like this would get me banned or is it ok (being that i'm not soliciting sex in exchange for money). Any moderators reading this...I mean no harm
I was kinda skeptical about asking for advice because I didn't know if asking for advice about something like this would get me banned or is it ok (being that i'm not soliciting sex in exchange for money). Any moderators reading this...I mean no harm