I'll have sex with you for freeBut I guess that won't help with books huh?
lol....it won't:biggrin1:
Sex for money?
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lol....it won't:biggrin1:
Rommette,
You seem to be a pretty, bright young woman with your life ahead of you. What has been proposed to you sounds like a quick fix to some money issues but it may have serious long term repurcussions. Run dont walk away from that offer. There are so many unknowns here and you dont need to live the rest of your life making up for one wrong choice in your 20's.
You seem to be a pretty, bright young woman with your life ahead of you. What has been proposed to you sounds like a quick fix to some money issues but it may have serious long term repurcussions. Run dont walk away from that offer. There are so many unknowns here and you dont need to live the rest of your life making up for one wrong choice in your 20's.
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obviously the point Iwas trying to make is that I DONT want to be a statistic.
What's wrong with you? Kinda slow?:dunno:
What's wrong with you? Kinda slow?:dunno:
you'll have to excuse mikey, he's a bit sarcastic... all that UCLA grad school stress is cutting off the oxygen to his brain.
aside from that, tell me, rommette, what have you decided to do after hearing everyone's advice and opinions? i am not here to judge you for the choices you make. but i'm curious to know what you have decided on.
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My short answer is hellllllllllllllllll no. I can think of a few thousand problems that could arise. What if he's an undercover cop? Can you really trust him to have the money? What if he tries to rape you? Why would he try to persuade a complete stranger to have a baby with him? The quick cash isn't worth the risk. Go to a casino. It'd be safer.
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Rommette, a girl with your looks could easily make $700 without having sex. And if you're actually REALLY considering have sex for money, you should ask for more than a mere $700. I mean $700?!?!? That's what you pay a consultant for an hours worth of small talk.
Either just say no - or at least make a fortune from it.
A rather unfortunate but true statement. Not so much for the men, for they get what they want without worry, but moreso for the women. In considering the moral aspects of prostitution it never was the men that were on the issue plate, nor was it with the studies, social and psychological and criminal and the like, dealing with prostitution.
I guess I feel a sort of pity for those who've chosen to use their talents to do nothing more than what nature has encoded. It's not like I disagree on the basis that it's sex for money, but more like I disagree on the basis that no real contribution is made by these people at all.
If she charges $700 she'll look greedy. I say she should only charge about $100. Why should she take advantage of this poor man?
Hi Rommette, I'm really sorry you got so many nasty replies in this thread - there has been an overwhelming number of mean and/or patronising replies and you don't deserve that. You asked a question that I suspect many women would have contemplated at some point, and some of the responses looked more like lectures than kind advice. I don't think you're stupid (as evidenced by your well thought out responses) and I don't think you should take their comments personally.
You make some good points in your defence about the hypocrisy exhibited in some of the replies - there is always some risk involved in any type of sex with any type of person.
I think the key is weighing up the risks and gains rationally (as OnyxRayne wisely advises you to do). To me, $700 doesn't seem like a lot of money (although I can appreciate you're in a difficult financial situation) and this guy does seem a bit suspicious. I would advise you to be careful, and be wary of this guy because there could be long-term implications that outweigh the immediate benefit, but I am pleased that you seem to be aware of the risks.
All the best for your studies Rommette.
You make some good points in your defence about the hypocrisy exhibited in some of the replies - there is always some risk involved in any type of sex with any type of person.
I think the key is weighing up the risks and gains rationally (as OnyxRayne wisely advises you to do). To me, $700 doesn't seem like a lot of money (although I can appreciate you're in a difficult financial situation) and this guy does seem a bit suspicious. I would advise you to be careful, and be wary of this guy because there could be long-term implications that outweigh the immediate benefit, but I am pleased that you seem to be aware of the risks.
All the best for your studies Rommette.
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All I want to say is the man seems to be about power and control. More men than you would think get their rocks off thinking about "planting their seed". I heard in on the phone sex lines a lot. Something else these men had in common was everyone of them wanted me to act like a whore on the phone. Debase, humiliate, abuse and most wanted me to pretend I was being hit by them.
Some people look very convincing behind their masks Rommette.
Another thing, some people who mean well come off sounding like they are assholes. Take the positive things you can from their statements and forget the rest.
You know you won't do it, you have your doubts for a reason. Trust your gut.:smile:
Some people look very convincing behind their masks Rommette.
Another thing, some people who mean well come off sounding like they are assholes. Take the positive things you can from their statements and forget the rest.
You know you won't do it, you have your doubts for a reason. Trust your gut.:smile:
Everyone I have decided not to go threw with it. I text messaged him telling him to leave me alone and don't call me anymore. He was calling me non-stop for like 5 or so hours (to which I never answered). He stopped....I went to see Hancock (good movie) and its all over now.
Alot of my decision came from you all but I must say that the disrespectful comments that were made didn't do much to help me to finalize my decision. Honestly, if I had talked to him again I believe he would have been nicer than some of you have been to me on this thread (in reference to the name calling).
Now, everybody can move on now. I hope all of you are estatic with my decision being that quite a few of you put misdirected energy into this thread or either wrote a passionate opinion on the topic. I guess I would be "rude" if I didn't just thank all of you. I don't think i'll ever comtemplate bareback with some strange guy again.
Warm Regards,
Rommette:slomo:
Alot of my decision came from you all but I must say that the disrespectful comments that were made didn't do much to help me to finalize my decision. Honestly, if I had talked to him again I believe he would have been nicer than some of you have been to me on this thread (in reference to the name calling).
Now, everybody can move on now. I hope all of you are estatic with my decision being that quite a few of you put misdirected energy into this thread or either wrote a passionate opinion on the topic. I guess I would be "rude" if I didn't just thank all of you. I don't think i'll ever comtemplate bareback with some strange guy again.
Warm Regards,
Rommette:slomo:
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Of course he would have been nicer to you. He wants to trick you into thinking he's nice so he can treat you like his whore, possibly beat you, maybe give you an STD and on the off-chance luck is with him, get you pregnant. He'll be plenty nice until he has you in the sack where he can throw you around and choke you, etc.
At least you made the right decision.
No Way! It took me a lot of hard work to get some self-esteem. I'm not throwing all that away for few bucks.
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Who the hell calls nonstop for 5hours? :dunno:
Stay away from psychos they are bad for your life!
I think the opinions are so strong because to us who are older and not directly involved in the situation it's a cut & dry issue. It's brave that you asked the question about this. It's good that you made a decision, now STICK to that decision! I don't wanna hear on the news that some pretty black girl was found in some crazy man's freezer or other fucked up crap.
Sometimes we need advice from people who aren't directly involved in the situation. And sometimes those opinions are HARSH. But it is advice. Asking a question and getting an answer we really don't want to hear, but know it's true deep down.
Stay away from psychos they are bad for your life!
I think the opinions are so strong because to us who are older and not directly involved in the situation it's a cut & dry issue. It's brave that you asked the question about this. It's good that you made a decision, now STICK to that decision! I don't wanna hear on the news that some pretty black girl was found in some crazy man's freezer or other fucked up crap.
Sometimes we need advice from people who aren't directly involved in the situation. And sometimes those opinions are HARSH. But it is advice. Asking a question and getting an answer we really don't want to hear, but know it's true deep down.
Honey if you want to make money by having sex called a "reputable"
escort service in your area and talk to some of the women and men who work there.
Find out what percentage they will require you to give them and what the fees's are they charge for every client and the various "acts".
Be upfront about what you will do. Don't say you'll do everything if you don't do anal or don't want to be tied up by a guy. Be clear be specific!
Do they keep a list of " bad clients" and is it up to date?
Make sure someone always knows the name and address of where you will be with the client.
The service should always check out where the call comes from and verify the name and address.
If they don't move on to another service.
Never extend the time you spend with the clients unless he is a "regular" of the business and it has been arranged beforehand.
One half to one hour is the standard amount a client expects.
Get yourself checked every month and never have sex without a condom not for any amount of money.
Of course the advice they gave you was harsh, consider that they don't want to hear about you being killed or raped by the idiot you were talking to.
He wasn't a guy you should trust. I wouldn't and he probably would'nt give you the $700 bucks!
If you want to make money this way do it safely as possible.
cigarbabe:saevil:
escort service in your area and talk to some of the women and men who work there.
Find out what percentage they will require you to give them and what the fees's are they charge for every client and the various "acts".
Be upfront about what you will do. Don't say you'll do everything if you don't do anal or don't want to be tied up by a guy. Be clear be specific!
Do they keep a list of " bad clients" and is it up to date?
Make sure someone always knows the name and address of where you will be with the client.
The service should always check out where the call comes from and verify the name and address.
If they don't move on to another service.
Never extend the time you spend with the clients unless he is a "regular" of the business and it has been arranged beforehand.
One half to one hour is the standard amount a client expects.
Get yourself checked every month and never have sex without a condom not for any amount of money.
Of course the advice they gave you was harsh, consider that they don't want to hear about you being killed or raped by the idiot you were talking to.
He wasn't a guy you should trust. I wouldn't and he probably would'nt give you the $700 bucks!
If you want to make money this way do it safely as possible.
cigarbabe:saevil:
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