Are you in a longterm relationship with another man? How often do you have sex? Has it changed over the months/years? Is your libido very different than your partner's? Do you both bottom? Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for sharing!
@bobbleworc, men were always complaining their female partners didn't want sex. I was wondering if in man-man relationships these problems of mismatched libido were less frequent. .
Are you in a longterm relationship with another man? How often do you have sex? Has it changed over the months/years? Is your libido very different than your partner's? Do you both bottom? Thank you for sharing.
That sounds wonderful. I wish I had someone to please me orally throughout the day!i'll take it question by question.
1. Yes
2. usually two or three times day (especially since lockdown), but penetrative sex only about once or twice a week, unless we're on a 'winning streak' digestively lol, there's been some magical weeks where we've managed penetrative sex nearly everyday. It's usually oral though
3. No, except yeah a little more since lockdown since we both work less now.
4. We both have powerful sex drives, but we differ in the sense that he prefers sex in the early morning when still in bed, and I'm a bigger fan of lunch sex and before-bed sex. I'm really groggy in the morning and sometimes its hard for me to enjoy the morning sex, but I like pleasing my man and he pretty much expects to shoot in my throat every morning whether I'm ready to wake up or not. Sometimes i'm annoyed but then remind myself how grateful I am that he loves shooting in my throat so much, and how hot it is that he would have such an expectation of me!
5. Yep, we both bottom. I bottom a little bit more frequently because my partner struggles with hemmorrhoids and I do not have the same struggle. Sometimes my digestion gets rebellious though and then I don't get to bottom, and his digestion is better, he doesn't have to douche like I do. Last time we had penetrative sex was two days ago, and I topped, and it was great sex. Last time we had oral sex was 45 minutes ago.
I met him five or six years ago but didn't start sleeping with him and hanging out with him until about two years ago when I was still in another relationship, started seriously dating just one year ago, and then i moved in with him a little over two months ago when the lockdown began. I do definitely partially attribute the current sex frequency to the lockdown. There's actually a somewhat significant age difference, about 25 years, but him being older doesn't seem to make his sex drive any less than my own and in many ways he can be much more vital-seeming than me often. He's pretty fit. I do okay but I drink and he doesn't. He inspires me to cut down.@Tomtom10 and @dreambridger, thank for sharing!
We also have oral more often than penetrative sex. It isn't because of any problem, just that my man also loves oral, more than penetration. And I love having my clit sucked.
May I ask you how long you've been in your current relationship? I think frequency decreases with the years. I'd find it normal to have a lot of sex in the first years. Though with your high sex drives from both partners, I think you won't have that problem!
@Tomtom10 and @dreambridger, thank for sharing!
We also have oral more often than penetrative sex. It isn't because of any problem, just that my man also loves oral, more than penetration. And I love having my clit sucked.
May I ask you how long you've been in your current relationship? I think frequency decreases with the years. I'd find it normal to have a lot of sex in the first years. Though with your high sex drives from both partners, I think you won't have that problem!
I'm happy that some couples continue to have sex several times a week after many years. I think a lot of it has to do with physical attraction. Personally, I am in a 25+ year relationship. Our sex life started hot and heavy, but tapered off and eventually stopped. Why? Reasons too many to number, but before condemning me consider this: We agreed that sex was not a priority when it came to our relationship. Common interests, fun, mutual life goals, and genuine love were more important. The one thing we agreed: no cheating/open relationship. That was a deal breaker and we've both kept to it. He jerks off and he knows I do. We've gotten older, our bodies have changed and I don't think we are physically attracted to each other. But I can't imagine my life without him and I know he would say the same.
Sex? Hell, you can download an app and be in bed with someone in 15 minutes. You can pay for it too. But what we have? That takes years of hard work that no amount of sex could ever replace.