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Same sirMy current partnership is over 6 years long. We both prefer monogamy.
I personally would like to have sex somewhere between twice a day to every third day. My partner would like sex somewhere between once or twice a week.
When he's stressed, it can blow out to once a fortnight. A couple of times it was once a month.
Mismatched libidos are common and nobody's fault. That's what masturbation is for. Monogamy isn't for everyone. For me I would be too insecure emotionally and worried about STIs to have an open relationship.
My partner and I have been together for 12 years. From the very beginning it has been an open relationship. I knew I would fool around and I didn't want to lie about it. If it was a deal breaker, we needed to know up front. He was fine with it. And a good thing. Sexually we aren't really that compatible. Both of us are tops. And my dick is too big for him. He is not very big guy. Weighs 118lb. Sometimes we have a third guy join us. He always arranges it. That works well for us. I love watching him fuck another guy. He is really good at it. And I love fucking the guy after he has shot his load. Something hot about using his cum as lube. We just don't get jealous over sexual things.
I love him to death. And we really fit perfect together in every other way. We are both in this for the long haul. As happier or maybe even more happy than the day we meant.
I've been with my partner for 11 years, but we have a very different type of relationship.
We met one night at the adult bookstore. And the first 3 years we both said we weren't not looking for a relationship, we just wanted a friends with benefits situation. . I know he was fucking around and he knows I was doing the same. When it did get serious between us, we lived together and were monogamous. I also started working at the same place that he did, so we were together 24/7. But after 3 years, we realized we cannot live together, we were fighting all the time, he was staying out most nights and things were going downhill for us. He moved out, got his own place. We started talking again and things got better between us. So we live a little over an hour apart. We still work together, and I do spend some nights at his place. But the other nights are our alone time. I stay at my place and he stays at his place.
But we had a long talk when we started living apart and we both agreed that while we love each other, things sometimes happen. Instead of us saying we were monogamous and then lying about something that happened, we agreed to be open our relationship. We have a Don't Ask/Don't Tell policy, which we both agree with. We have only had 1 3some in 11 years, and since we both have very different taste in men, so I doubt we could ever find a 3some that would work for both of us. So for now, we are both happy with our sexual agreement.