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So for context, me and my boyfriend are aged 22 and 23, a gay male couple from the UK. We have been together for 2 and a half years.

It has always been a super hot fantasy of mine to be involved in Group Sex, which I have been open to with my boyfriend since we got together. He has had one previous experience which I haven’t. We have agreed that we would enjoy to have sex (or just do bits) in front of other people, preferably another couple our age who would also do the same. We would like to see how this goes before we take it any further.

I want to know how common this is to happen? And how we would go about setting this up? Or if anyone has any experience of anything like this? Please let me know in the comments!!
 

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It is probably a little bit more common than you think. My ex and I used to have sex in front of others all the time. We first met at an adult bookstore and we continued to meet there for a long time before we started dating. It was common for us to have sex in a booth and we knew there was somebody watching us through the gloryhole. There were a few times that we would suck each other off in the hallway, where anybody in the booth area could see us. There was also a few times that we had public sex outdoors, but it was also always dark and secluded when we did that. It was lots of fun.
 

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I’ve been to saunas that have caged areas where you play with a partner and be watched but other people can’t join in. Might be an intermediate step for you to explore your fantasy without much fuss. Setting up a voyeur scenario with another couple is always possible, but would take some organizing and you have to deal with people flaking out, being awkward, etc. If you don’t like the scene at the sauna you can just play privately or leave.
 

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It is probably a little bit more common than you think. My ex and I used to have sex in front of others all the time. We first met at an adult bookstore and we continued to meet there for a long time before we started dating. It was common for us to have sex in a booth and we knew there was somebody watching us through the gloryhole. There were a few times that we would suck each other off in the hallway, where anybody in the booth area could see us. There was also a few times that we had public sex outdoors, but it was also always dark and secluded when we did that. It was lots of fun.

Sounds super hot man, I think I’d prefer something a little bit more private for my first time though haha. If only there was an adult bookstore near me man
 

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I’ve been to saunas that have caged areas where you play with a partner and be watched but other people can’t join in. Might be an intermediate step for you to explore your fantasy without much fuss. Setting up a voyeur scenario with another couple is always possible, but would take some organizing and you have to deal with people flaking out, being awkward, etc. If you don’t like the scene at the sauna you can just play privately or leave.

Yeah I don’t think there is a sauna like that near me and I would prefer to have prior knowledge of who the other people would be. I would be interested in organising it but don’t know how I’d even go about this to begin with!
 

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Sounds super hot man, I think I’d prefer something a little bit more private for my first time though haha. If only there was an adult bookstore near me man
You definitely have to do what is comfortable for you. And trust in your partner is a big part of that comfortability.

That boyfriend and I tried out MANY different sexual experiences. I always felt very comfortable with him and trusted him. He felt the same about me (at the time at least). We both pushed each other to try new things sexually. We definitely had a crazy and wild sex life. But that was because we trusted each other. I haven't tried many of those things since we broke up, I haven't met a person I trust enough to do them with (and this includes my current partner of 12 years).
 

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I have no problems with sex in front of others. I visited many gay saunas in Germany and Vienna and had no problem with it.

Also in the gay nudist area at Vienna Danube. What I don't like is, if someone is touching me during the sex with an other guy without asking.
 

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It’s very common especially in safe spaces for gay men. I’ve been fucked in front of others in private parties, gay saunas, dance clubs, even sometimes at a hang out. Just a couple of weeks ago a fuck buddy of mine fucked me at his friends place while they watched for a bit. If you like exhibitionism and don’t mind other guys possibly joining in I’d recommend you give it a go
 

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It’s very common especially in safe spaces for gay men. I’ve been fucked in front of others in private parties, gay saunas, dance clubs, even sometimes at a hang out. Just a couple of weeks ago a fuck buddy of mine fucked me at his friends place while they watched for a bit. If you like exhibitionism and don’t mind other guys possibly joining in I’d recommend you give it a go
I agree, there is something special; about being observed having sex. I used to happen often on the beach and I loved being seen having my asshole filled as the audience for sexually roused. My first was in a gay club/sauna in Amsterdam and instead of taking me to a private cubicle the guy fucked me standing up while his mates looked on, then took over and had their fill. It felt amazing and horny. Funniest one was I was in a club and this guy spread eagled over a table being fucked by guys lining up, took m y place in the line and enjoyed getting stuck into a cum filled warm hole knowing guys were seeing how deep I thrust and how long I took to cum before another guy took over - later found out it was an ex of mine! Kinda made it all the more raunchy. Public, well observed, sex not to be ignored, only the Victorian s put the lights out and closed the curtains.
 

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It’s very common especially in safe spaces for gay men. I’ve been fucked in front of others in private parties, gay saunas, dance clubs, even sometimes at a hang out. Just a couple of weeks ago a fuck buddy of mine fucked me at his friends place while they watched for a bit. If you like exhibitionism and don’t mind other guys possibly joining in I’d recommend you give it a go

Yes this is exactly what I want for me and my boyfriend. I’m glad that this is more common that I realised. How do you think is best to go about setting up something like this?
 

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Yes this is exactly what I want for me and my boyfriend. I’m glad that this is more common that I realised. How do you think is best to go about setting up something like this?
Not something you"set up" but if you have a party of other guys that good start to just get down and do it - you'll find others will join in. Local gay beach another good place - but a bit edgy, even so I enjoyed a few public shags in the dunes with multiple guys willing to "fill" in...
 
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Yes this is exactly what I want for me and my boyfriend. I’m glad that this is more common that I realised. How do you think is best to go about setting up something like this?

Some guys having private parties where it’s socially acceptable to do that. Some people put up ads for that on dating apps, Twitter or CL and . You just gotta get out there and find people. I usually do all that apps and stuff like that and find guys who are hosting or know someone who hosts. Busy late night gay clubs and raves are easy to fuck in the middle of a crowded section. A lot of bars and clubs in Europe have darkrooms or places for hookups cruising where you could fuck in front of guys
 

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My partner and I regularly have sex at gay or nudist beaches. There's always a place tucked out of sight of the beach for this purpose. There's always guys back there looking for action themselves. We don't play with others but we don't mind if others want to watch and do their own thing.

It's much better than saunas. My partner is quite hung so in that environment people feel entitled to try and touch him or join in and often don't take no for an answer.
 

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I have sex in front of other constantly, and prefer it that way. Sex clubs and resorts are great for that. I also make porn so that hits it twice over: once in front of those doing the filming and again as the resulting scene is viewed by others
 

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I love having sexy or even just jacking off in front of other guys. It’s my biggest turn on having people watch. I have had sex and fooled around in so many places. Sometimes I got caught. Sometimes I didn’t. My favorite time was at a Pride after party. Me and my boyfriend had a threesome in the hot tub in front of everyone at the party. It was so hot!
 

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My buddy and I have had two 3-somes and two 4-somes in the past two months. This has been a new experience for us and we found that we enjoyed being watched and watching interacting with each other and with the other men involved. We both topped and bottomed while the other four men involved all bottomed. We have each been together separately with three of the men at different times.
 

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I was chatting an Australian daddy (George) once, he told me to come to his hotel room. When I came, I was greeted by his boyfriend who immediately kissed my lips and take me to his bed and undressing me. He was very hung!

Although I came to meet George, I couldn't keep myself from seeing his hard wood. It's so big and so hard, it felt like touching a rock. But being an old-school, I politely told him that I didn't want to be penetrated. So, instead he penetrated his boyfriend while I was watching them. Then George came on top of me and dryhumped me. We ended up cuddling together and went for lunch. They are very friendly and nice people.
 

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I have gone to the home of two masseurs who are married to each other and have patronized both of them for some time, so we know each other pretty well. They use a spare bedroom as the massage room. The first masseur uses a lighter touch and specializes in things like loosening the fascia with a very gentle touch. For his massage, I am naked under a towel, which he moves around. When he is doing my back, I remove the towel and he spends a good deal of time on my glutes. His husband is a much more physical type, using heavier pressure. For his massage, I am totally naked and he is very free with his hands. One night, after the massage, we were sitting drinking water and his husband joined us. We were joking around and the more physical masseur said offhandedly," I have thought about what it would be like to fuck you." He told me that his husband does not do anal and that he loves it. I jokingly said, "Okay, next time." The husband said," And I'll watch." I laughed and said," Sure." Well, they were serious, because the next time I went in, both of them came into the massage room. We all stripped and the more physical one began the massage, while his husband sat down and watched. Well, this was an amazingly sensuous massage, with his hand going everywhere. Suddenly, I felt his tongue licking my hole. I started to moan, figuring that I would give the husband something to see and hear. After the tonguing, the masseur hopped up on the table and entered me. He was very large, so it took a little while for me to relax. I finally did and he began his slow thrusts. I started with some dirty talk and he responded. I looked up at the watching husband who was stroking himself, staring at the two of us. The strokes started getting much more intense and I was really feeling it, so I started really getting loud. After a few minutes, the masseur said," Where do you want my cum?" I told him I wanted it in my face, so I rolled over and he shot his load onto my face. His husband came at the same time. We had done what started as a joke. I remember this as one of my most favorite sexual moments. I know that they have another married couple with whom they are good friends. I often fantasize about having the same massage in front of the husband and their two friends. I know I could put on a great show.