Hello everybody, I would like to know from the women here about a question rumbling in my mind lately. My sexy partner is in the 50s range, to me she is the sexiest thing on heart, at the beginning of our relationship we were having a quite active sex life, I was not her first partner (quite many before me) and she was not my first one (not those many before her), we used to have great sex, both quality and quantity, long lasting session (I think they were long as am not an expert but I guess in the 30-40 minutes can be considered long compared to common statistics). We used to see each other not too often given living in distant places so it was normal that being the beginning and because of the distance the attraction was really really strong but then, with time, things mellowed down, especially on her side, still it's great, not that long any more, not that often at all but still a great experience. What I am worried is what it seems to be the lack of attraction towards sex from her side, I often worry she doesn't find me attractive any longer but she says it's not because of that, I worry because I love sex and I love it with her but she never takes the initiative herself and sometimes I got the feeling that when it was me to approach I was sort of refused and, as a consequence, I quit trying but I still find her so attractive in that department that I can't make any different than to suffer from this situation. Lately we have gone through lot of problems that probably affected this part of the couple life but, at least on my side, it never affected my libido, she also takes some medications that she says affect hers (even though I read the contraindication and they don't mention loss of libido neither by reading online experiences there are many who state suffering from this side effect) but I am just afraid that things will go worse and worse. It is true that in a couple life sex doesn't have such a big importance but I challenge any of you to state the contrary, sex does have its importance, I love it, I love it with her and I want to understand if I am too much into it (not my fault if I find her being so attractive) or if there is something wrong with me, I can't in a way accept it will go worse with time. Is it normal for a woman to loose interest with age? She used to be quite 'active' before me and also with me, what is it going on?