Sex Is Such A Funny Thing...

kr8zy

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There are 5 of us - two couples and myself. We are all good friends.

Couple one is an open relationship - big age difference. I mess around with the younger one all the time. His partner is fully aware - he's a much older guy so hasn't joined in too much. But everything is comfortable. Sex is just a fun thing to do between us.

Second couple - me and one of them really made a personal connection with interests, etc. The tension is pretty strong. Yet we decided not to have sex because it is going to make things really awkward. In a nutshell, I know I am going to get attached (and he might, too) and it would put a strain on their relationship. And as I am good friends with them both, I absolutely don't want to do that.

We're adults and we are dealing with it just fine. I was just thinking about how weird sex can be - in some instances it is totally casual, and in others it can carry so much baggage.
 
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Sex certainly can be different from person to person. Some take the action to mean love, others see it as an activity like walking or biking, something that can 'get you somewhere' in a relationship. Still others are like gourmands, those who need to sample as much of it as possible. Nothing wrong with any of it. As long as its seen as something natural, all is good. I do agree and sometimes think about how sex is different with each person I've been with. Certainly is a funny world we live in.