How often is "normal" to you guys?
Oh my! What a dream...LOLtell me about it..... i got 15 condoms on monday... and today is tuesday... only 2 condoms left... soon to buy more.
Since we got married, but that's when work stress began.....Textbook. Stress combined with guilt over something or many things and its probably not about having an affair.
Has he had a religious revelation or conversion, that does in some people.
He could be emotional about something, a recent death in the family, etc. Yes, guys can be emotional.
If he has been seriously working out he could be taking drugs to enhance body building and those drugs can affect the libido.
Has he always had a low sex drive?
We've discussed it every month since we've been married and I ask him to get his testosterone level checked but he wont cuz he insists that it is fine.I am curious as to how the OP's husband knows so definitely that his testosterone level is fine. I don't believe that getting a piss hard every morning attests to much about sex drive, per se! Even a dying man with a fulll bladder can get one of those pressure on the prostate kinds of erections. Go figure? I believe their complete lack of communication is telling in their sexual dysfunction. If you can't articulate your needs to someone , how on earth can they fulfill them?
We've discussed it every month since we've been married and I ask him to get his testosterone level checked but he wont cuz he insists that it is fine.
We've discussed it every month since we've been married and I ask him to get his testosterone level checked but he wont cuz he insists that it is fine.
I am beginning to think your hubby knows something that you don't. Perhaps he already suspects that he has E.D and is afraid of the doctor confirming that diagnosis. It is very bad form for him to ignore your concern! You really have legal grounds for divorce in most states!:smile:
He's mid 30'sHow old is he? Sorry I can't go thru all the treads
It is VERY good......guess that's why I'm pulling my hair out here....I ALWAYS come unless it's been so long (sometimes we go for 2 or 3 months) that I have to get back in the groove of things....after reading the responses and talking more with the hubby I think that it may be his job situation that is leading to his low sex drive.....Forgive me if I missed this somewhere in the thread, but how is the sex the 1 time a month you do have it?
There are a lot of reasons why your husband may have low sex drive, ranging from physical to emotional. What I've read gives the impression that it's emotional, if he's healthy and having these nightly erections, etc.
So, how the sex is when you do have it might shed some light.
It is VERY good......guess that's why I'm pulling my hair out here....I ALWAYS come unless it's been so long (sometimes we go for 2 or 3 months) that I have to get back in the groove of things....after reading the responses and talking more with the hubby I think that it may be his job situation that is leading to his low sex drive.....