Sex Parties

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  1. goldfish10

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    Anyone been to a sex party? Interested in trying it out, but not quite sure how to find them or what to expect. Any advice?
     
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    You need to let us know what TYPE of sex party it is. Many here have been to straight ones, others to gay ones and I suspect there are quite a few differences between them and half probably aren't relevant to you!

    In addition, some sex parties are themed or have a common interest in attendees and that will affect your expectations.

    I have been to scores of gay ones and have also hosted a few.
     
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    I've been to a number of "sex parties", both gay and straight. I prefer ones that are more on the bisexual line to be honest. Hey, the best of both worlds right?

    That said, what are you interested in? Gay? Straight? Bisexual?
     
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    Use condoms.
     
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    Go along with an open mind and just smile and be friendly.Any decent party will have condoms provided but take your own if you'd prefer.The one i go to is fantastic,the host and hostess are friendly,non judgemental and make anybody welcome.You don't have to do anything that you don't want to but giving things a try will open up a whole new world to you......well it did to me anyway.
     
  6. Northland

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    There are all kinds of sex gatherings. As has been indicated, gay, straight, bisexual. I've tried them all, depending who I am with at the time, the straight are rough on me as I want some of the men- you can get close if a woman is giving head to two men- side to side turn- at the same time. Also if there's a woman looking for a DP- either anal and vaginal or both in the vagina. However, in the straights, there's no hands on contact of him or giving him a blowjob.

    Bisexual gatherings work best for me, I can have some of everything.


    Bring condoms, as indicated, they should be provided; but, if you have a brand which fits you better than the standards, use it.

    There are also- and this is a risk factor- sex gatherings where the condom is optional (yes, they still exist). The ones I've been to require ID and a recent (past 2 weeks) health report, stating no STDs. These can be enjoyable; but, there is always that risk, it's up to you what you are willing to do. (there are risks as well, even when condoms are used, they are substantially less in condomed gatherings, it's your level of comfort that you need to address)

    Go in open minded, don't get bent out of shape if the one you want, is busy with several others, there's always next time.


    For any sex gathering, you need to have a good sense of self, no worries or concerns about your body compared to others. Remember, this is about sex, it's not a modeling contest. Once the sex starts, all kinds of bodies can merge- black, white, caramel, large, thin, tall, short, fat penis, skinny penis, large lips, tiny lips, long penis, shorter penis, deep box, shallow box, it's about sex and feeling good. Above all, relax and enjoy, it's about having a good time.


    (and prepare yourself for some surprises, you may run into somebody you know from work, church, community- it can be an added stimulant:smile:)
     
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    Sex parties differ a lot. They are not all the same.

    A sex party of let's say 8 close friends is very different than a sex party of dozens of strangers/acquaintances at a hedonism club.

    Each party has its own rules. Some say no booze or drugs, while at others the spirits flow freely and the pills/joints get passed around. Some require condoms and dams even among long-established partners who just have sex with one another at a party. Others allow participants to choose for themselves whether they will practice safer-sex techniques.

    Some are mostly gay or lesbian. Many are for bi folks, and some only want straights. Quite a few "straight" parties allow/encourage bi women.

    If you are a single straight guy, you may find many parties won't invite you.

    You can find ads for sex parties inside swinger magazines. (Some porn shops have these.) You can also find ads for sex parties on adult sex/dating websites. A few of those sites have personal ads which say they are a group of people who host parties.
     
  8. need2bsexy2

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    I have found this to be a wonderful place for my needs: www.mon-chatet.com. Just go into the pool area and be talkitive.
     
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    If you want to be around other guys, you might want to start out with JO oriented parties - they are safe and no one will be pushing your limits. If you want more, then I'd check out online local web sites to see if they list any that spike your interest. You may also want to ask some of your closer buddies to see if they know of any OR would like to go along with you. It's sometimes fun to go with a fuck buddy or a pal, as long as you set expectations about how you want to deal with each other at the event and under different situations.

    I agree with others - best to use condoms every time and avoid events where condom use is optional; otherwise you might be forced to repeatedly say 'no'.

    Be a gracious guest. Follow the golden rule - treat others as you would want to be treated in terms of seeking them and with rejection. Don't take someone's polite 'no' personally - everyone has different interests and sex parties are more about finding good playful 'fits' where people who find each other mutually sexy can play.

    Let us know how it goes!
     
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    Always wanted to go to one but wouldn't know where to look locally lol
     
  11. D_Sparroe Spongecaques

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    Look online,thats where the one i go to is advertised though its my best friend who hosts it and thats how i got to know about it.

    I will have a looky on the site we're both on and pm you the venue nearest you

    Natasha
     
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    Thanks
     
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    Hate to say it, but going in with low expectations is a must.
     
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    Of course. We have swingers club here so we meet twice a month and having a nice time fucking each other's wife. Also we organize masturbation sessions when we only circle jack cocks and women look and enjoy!
     
  15. goldfish10

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    Thanks for everyone's advice. I finally decided that I will go tomorrow night to a sex party. Anything I should expect or any tips on choosing women at the party?
     
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    If you find out when and where....Let me know
     
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    I think it's more likely that the women choose you than the other way around.
     
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    luv these orgiastic times
     
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    The general rules are:

    Talk to the women but don't ask for sex. Let them approach you. They have many ways of showing that they are interested.

    After the woman indicates interest, always ask before you touch.

    Always ask if she would like to have some fun before having sex.

    The most important rule of all is NO means NO. Drop it and move on.
     
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