Sex Party Tips?

[~quicksilver~]

So my flatmates are going away for three weeks next month, leaving me with a big flat all to my lonesome... Have been toying with the idea of having a sex party. Anyone have any experience/tips/thoughts to share? Either about going to one or hosting? I have never done anything like it before but the thought really intrigues me.

I am assuming I should get sheets and cover all the furniture, put some good porn on the box and have loads of condoms, lube, towels and poppers dotted around. Anything else I should know?

 

[B_asdf88]

suck my jagon

 

[erratic]

I have never done such a thing either, but everyone I know who does says you need to screen your participants carefully.

 

[midlifebear]

Lock up the valuables!

 

[MuscledHorse]

I've been to piles sex parties. If you are going to host a sex party you need to:

1) have control ove who comes. Set rules on who will attennd and require an RSVP to receive directions. Make it clear that there is a capacity limit and it is by invite only.

2) Set rules on what may be brought. Thios specifically relates to drugs and alcohol. This is for your protection as much as the participants' protection. Any party I've been to Viagra and poppers were as far as the drugs allowed and alcohol was BYOB. Make it clear what will happen if these rules aren't followed.

3) have sacks for people to put their clothes in, label and seal (staple, packing tape, etc.). Remind them not to bring valuables with them. And definately LOCK UP yours, including innocuous things like CD's and DVD's; you'll be surprised what can go missing. if it can be stuffed in a bag.

4) Set rules on clothing--there is none. This prevents people from just watching and not participating. Provide towels for prople to wrap up in and clean off with (so have a lot of these).

5) Provide snacks and drinks, condoms, lube and a cover charge to pay for them. I've paid $5 to $20 US dollars at any sex party I've gone to.

 

[~quicksilver~]

Cool. Thanks for the tips. Thought I think if I am going to do it I am going to start on a much smaller scale... Maybe less of a sex party and more of a sex gathering :biggrin1: I am thinking about 10 at the max prob.

 

[frankieburberry]

Hey, you have already mensioned it but I thought I would second it, CONDOMS and lots of them!

 

[KIKEMAN29]

condoms and a lot of guys

 

[whatireallywant]

The best tip I can think of is to have condoms readily available, and if you can possibly do so, make them mandatory.

My gripe about the sex parties I've been to is that almost no one was using condoms. That's why I won't go anymore - I want the sex but I don't want to risk my life.

 

[TallHungLB]

Another thing to keep in mind is that if you're hosting the party, and you have a lot of guests that you don't really know, you probably won't be playing too much. You're going to be making sure everything and everyone is doing ok. Guests will be coming and going (or cuming and going :wink: ) Plus with all the strangers around you'd be smart to keep an eye on valuables, toys, porn, and anything else you don't want to disappear. Just use common sense and keep your wits about you.

I'd suggest inviting a few buddies that you know well and trust (and play with) to help you keep an eye on things so you won't have to worry the whole time.

Parties can be pretty fun and wild! Good luck!!

 

[numberseven]

No experience of my own to share, but in addition to the tips already mentioned, I would try to keep the guests to mostly people you know or know through one person. I wouldn't go much farther down the six degrees than that, though I realize that might be a little stricter than some.

I'd also advise thinking about what you're going to do when everyone arrives; chances are, not everyone is going to be the type to walk in the door and be immediately naked and ready to go. Maybe start out with a suggestive game everyone can play at once, or something like that, so that your party will devolve into carnality in a controlled fashion. :wink:

Good luck, hope it goes well!