I guess it has to do with who is giving who pleasure. But for me it feels like it also has to do with who is
inside who. Having a man inside me is a vulnerable thing. It's an absolutely wonderful feeling but think about how it works. When a woman is ready to have a guy inside her, her pussy gets wet and expands to get ready - we're rolling out the red carpet for the guy! Then it's the cock that pushes us apart, and moves around
inside us like it owns the place! And we
like it!
I think there are obviously different kinds of power, and both partners usually have power at some point during sex. But personally I find the penis a very powerful and sexy thing :tongue: :tongue: .