The community tends to lump gay men into top, bottom, or vers, as if we MUST have penetrative sex and we MUST be one of those types. Though I would fall in the category of a top, as that is my preference for anal sex, I actually don’t really find the act of penetrative sex that appealing. I am far more turned on by foreplay... oral, touching, and the like. I have personally found many partners who are receptive to this and can be brought to intense orgasm without ever performing anal.
I am now married and not dating, but when I was in the game, I felt like every road always had to lead to anal, even though I didn’t want it to.
Am I alone in this? Is their a term for guys like me?
I am now married and not dating, but when I was in the game, I felt like every road always had to lead to anal, even though I didn’t want it to.
Am I alone in this? Is their a term for guys like me?