I have been seeing a fun and very attractive girl for about one month now. Let me start by saying I like her a lot and definitely see her as more than something just physical. Things are going great, but we are having some problems in the bedroom. Firstly, I have no idea why, but I am struggling to cum... I don't get it... because I find her very physically attractive. Every time we have had sex I have seriously gone for an hour, in various positions (missionary, cowgirl, doggy) and just can't blow! Eventually she stops me as she says it is hurting, and I take the condom off and she tries to finish me with a handjob, but I just can't go! Eventually I have had to finish myself off while she rubs my arms, stomach etc... I would like to go from her though, because this would be much more intimate. The main problem could be I had a gf for 2 years and we didn't use condoms... I respect her wish to make me use them, but I find I can't feel anything and my dick feels as though it is suffocating, if that makes any sense. However i do not want to ask her to look at other options (eg pill) because I do not want to seem disrespectful, I genuinely value and respect her so please offer any advice with that in mind. Secondly... I can't make her orgasm! This is tough as with my ex I could make her go pretty much every time through sex, oral and by rubbing her clit. She is very wet during foreplay and sex so I can tell she is turned on... I just can't push her buttons right obviously, and I really really want to pleasure her and make her feel amazing. Help!