I actually have two problems, kind of unrelated (or maybe not, who knows?) The first is that when I'm fucking for over a certain period of time (let's say 20 minutes... I'm not sure of the exact amount), while I have no problem getting hard in the first place or staying hard while i'm inside, if for whatever reason i have to pull out temporarily my little guy loses all his steam VERY QUICKLY. I would say in less than 15 seconds it's not hard enough to get back in, and it is extremely hard to get back up. Needless to say, this is extremely embarrasing. The second, and possibly worse, problem is that I have a very hard time cumming inside someone. Whilst beating off I have no trouble whatsoever, but I could count on one hand the number of times I've came from fucking or getting sucked. On the one hand, it's nice because I can go for literally hours (assuming my guy doesn't slip out or she doesn't get raw), but girls always seem to think that it's their fault and that they're inadequate, even though I know it's me. Have any of you guys ever experienced these problems and how do you deal with them?