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Ok so this is sort of silly but I was talking to this girl, who very much likes to be fucked hard, who claimed she had sex with a guy who pounded her for 45 minutes straight without stopping. I expressed a lot of surprise by this, as that sounds pretty wild, and she didn't even know what I was surprised by. Then she claimed that that was a common thing and most guys she's been with have been able to do the same. Just start fucking her like a machine and not stop for 45 mins - 1 hour. Am I crazy or does that sound kind of unbelievable? Again I know this is silly and I can't believe I'm asking. What are your experiences like? Do men tend to have ridiculous stamina like that often? I've always thought my stamina was pretty good but I've never even come close to fucking anybody that long without stopping.
 
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In my experience no, but if you’re getting pounded that hard it might feel that long. Geez, what about the chafing? The bruising? And honestly, a minute or two is fine, but any longer it starts to hurt. I mean women are all different, but that would not be my cup of tea at all. I don’t know, but while all sexual activity (with pauses to engage in other sexual activities) tend to last that long and longer, pure hard penetration for that length of time would put you in the ‘selfish’ lover category.

Just my opinion, but for me, an hour of any penetration would get boring.
 
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I.. do not exactly keep an eye on a clock while banging. So... there is that. Also I prefer moderate length (which is just my own idea of a moderate amount of time) but vigorous/rough banging, rather than marathon/forever long.
 

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It's just I've never even seen that in porn. There's plenty of scenes where the guy pounds the girl hard for maybe a few minutes but I've never seen or heard of anyone going for that long without stopping. I'm just perplexed because that seems undoable to me. And I'm sure her concept of time is probably off because as masqued.visage said who actually watches the clock? Was just wondering if anyone else had similar experiences ever or if we're all in agreeance that she's probably either way off in her estimate or is just making it up.
 

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I truly hope you aren’t talking to “girls” (young women under 18) about this.

when I was younger, and far dumber, I’d go for this because I thought it was what happened.
Then I met a decent dude.
I still have a taste for rough, but 45 minutes of just pounding tells me he either isn’t interested in her orgasm or doesn’t know how to facilitate one.

can we end the vaginal wetness or lack thereof shaming while we are at it?
Lube can be a friend and it doesn’t make one “unnatural.’
 

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No. I can't think of anything I want done to jenny for 45 mins. That repetitive/constant stimulation eventually goes numb. Critical nerve endings will ignore sensation. Not to mention it sounds terribly boring. Change up, surprise and anticipation, is a good thing*

No level of wetness or quality of lube is going to prevent irritation. My boy packs much heat, 45 mins of drill hammering would put my cooch out of commission for a bit. No. No, thank you.

Also. I have hobbies and Netflix.

I wonder if the "drilling for her spine" style of fucking that dominates porn is what people think sex is meant to be? Burgerland is great at commoditizing sex and sexuality, we sell it and sell everything else with sex. But honest, frank and shameless discussion is rare. Women are sold sexual availability as the only true sexual expression. Setting boundaries, expressing needs and expecting reciprocation are almost never the focus outside of sex positive/feminist spaces.



*unless I'm close to orgasm.
 

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Either she was exaggerating or she was bad a estimating time?

I could be wrong. I'm not her. I wasn't there.

Personally I don't like to do *anything* for 45 minutes straight when it comes to sex. We can fuck for an hour or so, but we're switching positions and pace the whole time. A few minutes in one position, a few minutes in another, a few minutes a lil faster, a few a lil slower.. keeps it from getting boring and let's my bits readjust to keep sensation fresh.
 

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Some men can, mainly with the help of viagra, or something to keep their erection.

I love my pussy too much to want to be with men like this. If pumping is all you can do, find another partner who's into that, because I surely am not.