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The women here do tend to be a lot more graphic and specific about sex than anywhere else I've seen. It really helps to know the women here have a working vagina as well.

It also helps that you are known as a guy who isn't after wank fodder (as such! :tongue:). You usually get good responses because it's known that you are polite, respectful, and genuinely interested - while benefiting yourself is a nice side effect, it isn't your main purpose.


having a dude-ish username, and my personality, keeps more of the unwanted attention at a healthy distance. i'm like anti-wank fodder. keeps smutting up a post most enjoyable :tongue1:

Strangely enough, becoming a mod had a similar effect for me. Not sure if it's the mod badge itself, or if it's just coz I'm not posting as much sex stuff.


Thank you!

You're welcome :smile:.


On topic, for me sex feels like getting an itch scratched that you couldn't reach yourself. Nothing more complex than that. It does feel fucking good though :biggrin1:.
 

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I get the feeling that women get more out of orgasms than men. For one, you guys get the whole body deal. And another is that you can orgasm multiple times in one sitting. I've had multiples on two occasions, entirely by accident both times, and I can't remember what the hell I was doing because I was in such shock!
 

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The best part for me is when he first enters.

The rest is usually nothing to write home about.

Very few men have made me orgasm from sex.
i agree, but i also like his orgasm.
the stuff in between is just filling time usually.

there are exceptions though.
 

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i agree, but i also like his orgasm.
the stuff in between is just filling time usually.

there are exceptions though.

Good point. I absolutely love it when the guy cums..makes it so worth it lol.

Like I've said before though, I have a totally different opinion if it's with someone I'm actually in love with.
 

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i agree, but i also like his orgasm.
the stuff in between is just filling time usually.

there are exceptions though.

Again, I didn't get the memo on this, so I feel out of the loop. Most of the time it is ultra stimulating, but go to long and you're outa here. Seriously. And he knows.

I have had quite a few orgasms from penetrations, but all from him. And that's one of the reasons I'm keeping him. Is it the main reason? I don't know. :wink:
 

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i just don't find it that stimulating.
in out, angle, grind, whatthefuckever.
i really don't find it to be that magical sensation that society says it is.
and it's not a case of size or skill.


three things can make it different.
1, pain
2, emotion
3, other shit he's doing while he's fucking
 

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The more vocal I am on here about what feels good in sex, of if I watch porn, or if I like blow jobs, or if I like ....(insert whatever) the more I tend to get hit with men wanting to cam. I don't see the correlation myself. I like sex - LIVE in person SEX -- not watching someone else get their rocks off....I mean, it was fun the first few times, watching a guy jerk off, but not after those few times. *shrugs* It kinda kills the 'be honest with your sexual experience, wants, needs, opinions' for me.

But in the spirit of conversation, I will say that the best part of sex for me is all of it. I love it and have a high sex drive. If I'm not in a relationship, I still think about sex daily, sometimes hourly if I'm not working. :)

Now, what does it feel like when a man enters me? It feels like nothing else I've ever felt -- the first brush of the head of his cock, the knowledge that the fun's about to start, the sensation of holding my breath as he presses deep and stretches is incredible. I get very wet during sex, so it's always so hot to feel him slide in, then the press of his chest against mine if we're facing each other, and the sweat rolling off us, while we match each other in a rhythmic press and grind is essential. The whole package is what makes it so sexy hot. The touching, feeling, breathing, groans, and rising tension. When things get tingly, when it feels like I'm right there on the edge, that's when the thrusting needs to become harder and more like hitting just right. *shrug* hard to explain what punches me over that ledge, but when it does happen it's toe curling. His climax is just as important though. Almost more, to me. If he's groaning and into it, even talking, out of breath and starts to go a bit crazy, I almost can come just from that. The swelling sensation if he's inside and the almost roughness of his climax is part of the experience. So, yeah, sex is hot. And I always want round two...heeheee

You realize, that because of this, I am now stuck at my desk, sitting very close to it, making sure that the obvious is hidden,, don't ya?? :cool: :tongue: lol

I also agree with the poster who mentioned being jealous. While orgasming is fantastic, for me it's more centered in that particulate area, not from head to toe as mentioned here.