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matt4504

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Hey everyone,

So my boyfriend only really likes sex in the missionary position which I'm fine with in theory but whenever I try it (as a bottom) I find it the most painful of positions. Am I doing it wrong? Should I just 'man up' and the pain will eventually go?

Thanks!

Btw excuse me for only posting once in 7 years...
 
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Sometimes propping yourself up with a pillow under your ass so its raised up a bit can help.

or alternatively putting pillows under your shoulders so you can get a better view of the action can help...

though pain wise, having your ass raised up would probably help the most. that is if your doing it on a bed

if that does work, try the couch etc.. different locations turn into slight variations in position that help alot.

is he big? make sure hes using enough lube, and not inserting to fast, as in the missionary position the bttm does have less control of what the top is doing.. though sometimes I'll put my feet on their shoulders which can help me control them if needed until i'm ready for them to just go crazy..
 

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What matt121 said, but also: What's up with your boyfriend only liking missionary? And how does his pleasure override your pain? If he were my boyfriend I'd be telling him he has to settle for other positions once in a while - you know, the ones that don't cause pain - or else he's going to have to deal with a pretty serious relationship conversation.
 

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I have exactly the same issue. My BF is 9x6, and prefers missionary. We made a deal.
I get to ride him for 15 minutes.... Then doggy for 15 minutes.... And if he hasn't cum by
then, he can go missionary til he cums. I keep control by not letting him grab my legs,
and using pillows under my butt, legs wrapped around his back. It's a chore, and hurts like hell sometimes, but I do love it when he unloads. I know he grows inside me. Does anyone else experience that?