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Yes, even the title sound like a cheap name for a porn movie, im completely aware of that, but.

Here's the story: since i have to use xl condoms, it was always a problem for me to find a reliable source where i can buy the mysize brand. (i dont like to order condoms online) Then i found a local sex shop where its available. It was very awkward (for me at least) the first time when i set my foot in a sex shop and ask for xl rubbers. And here's the twist: the shop assistant is a gorgeous busty young girl.

I was in awe. She was very professional and helpful, yes they had mysize 60, i thanked and left. Since then i go back at least once in a month to buy condoms. (i dont buy a lot at a time bc its quiet expensive.) Once or twice she gave me a few cockring advices for larger than average sizes before i found the right one for me. (God it was so hot to talk these kind of things in person with an attracitve somewhat stranger female, yet i managed to keep my cool.) So i became a regular customer, and each time she was becoming more and more kind and smiling. By now i dont even have to say my order she start packing it. The first time when i suprised by this she said something like: "it was about time to learn your needs"

So i was in a long time relationship all along and never started to flirt with her didnt ask her out, didnt ask for her number or anything like that. But the relationship sadly ended recently. And sometimes i keep remindig myself this hot sex shop girl who kinda almost exactly knows about my measurements. But how should i ask her out or flirt with her? It feels weird and a new territory to pick up someone in a shop, not to mention in a sex shop, lol!

I know this story sound so cliché and the most important thing is to be confident, but its true and felt nice to share it here. Hope u guys (or girls) can help me what should i say the next time when i see her. Opening line, etc. Thanks for any advice.
 

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You have a crush. She's working. Don't confuse the fact that she is very good at her job with actual interest in you personally. I would tread very carefully, if at all.

You might simply come in, tell her your relationship ended, and that you aren't in need of more condoms just yet. Depending upon what she says, you might ask if she's interested in having coffee or lunch, etc.
 

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Yes, even the title sound like a cheap name for a porn movie, im completely aware of that, but.

Here's the story: since i have to use xl condoms, it was always a problem for me to find a reliable source where i can buy the mysize brand. (i dont like to order condoms online) Then i found a local sex shop where its available. It was very awkward (for me at least) the first time when i set my foot in a sex shop and ask for xl rubbers. And here's the twist: the shop assistant is a gorgeous busty young girl.

I was in awe. She was very professional and helpful, yes they had mysize 60, i thanked and left. Since then i go back at least once in a month to buy condoms. (i dont buy a lot at a time bc its quiet expensive.) Once or twice she gave me a few cockring advices for larger than average sizes before i found the right one for me. (God it was so hot to talk these kind of things in person with an attracitve somewhat stranger female, yet i managed to keep my cool.) So i became a regular customer, and each time she was becoming more and more kind and smiling. By now i dont even have to say my order she start packing it. The first time when i suprised by this she said something like: "it was about time to learn your needs"

So i was in a long time relationship all along and never started to flirt with her didnt ask her out, didnt ask for her number or anything like that. But the relationship sadly ended recently. And sometimes i keep remindig myself this hot sex shop girl who kinda almost exactly knows about my measurements. But how should i ask her out or flirt with her? It feels weird and a new territory to pick up someone in a shop, not to mention in a sex shop, lol!

I know this story sound so cliché and the most important thing is to be confident, but its true and felt nice to share it here. Hope u guys (or girls) can help me what should i say the next time when i see her. Opening line, etc. Thanks for any advice.

I hope all works out for you.
You do have a very impressive cock!
 
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So, there's actually a verifiable mathematical formula specific to this situation:

Attractive woman who works in sex shop X number of people (both M and F) who go into the sex shop and see the above attractive woman X number of people (both M and F) who really think they have a good chance with said attractive woman
÷ 0 and multiplied by a zillion, at least, and those are your odds of success.

Good luck though. Maybe you're that one in a zillion and it's always worth a shot if you have a thick skin for rejection. I hope you get lucky.
 
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You have a crush. She's working. Don't confuse the fact that she is very good at her job with actual interest in you personally. I would tread very carefully, if at all.

You might simply come in, tell her your relationship ended, and that you aren't in need of more condoms just yet. Depending upon what she says, you might ask if she's interested in having coffee or lunch, etc.
I agree wholeheartedly. It could be good customer service. Is she age appropriate? I ask because you refer to het as " gorgeous busty young girl". If she is age appropriate and before you pursue her just know she's probably heard it all before. If you do go back at least act as if you have another purchase on your mind. That might get a conversation going like your break up.Feel it out (not her). She might already have someone.
 

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I agree wholeheartedly. It could be good customer service. Is she age appropriate? I ask because you refer to het as " gorgeous busty young girl". If she is age appropriate and before you pursue her just know she's probably heard it all before. If you do go back at least act as if you have another purchase on your mind. That might get a conversation going like your break up.Feel it out (not her). She might already have someone.
A pocket pussy/Fleshlight purchase might be in order...tell her you're alone since you broke up, and see if she reacts in some way that would lead to going further toward asking her out.

But I can't get past feeling as though ANY purchase-related ruse is just going to be totally cliché and tacky. If she's as hot as described, she's heard it all....in the last hour.
 

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First of all, please stop referring to women as “girls”. Girls are children. This may be a young woman, but she is not a “girl”.

Personally, I think this probably has more to do with good customer service than anything else, but you never know. All you can do is engage her in conversation, she if she’s interested in talking about anything other than “shop talk”. If so, you can always see if she’s interested in going for a coffee. If so, great, if not, then nothing ventured, nothing gained. Make your purchase and say, “just thought I’d ask”. Just be friendly.

If she really doesn’t seem interested in talking with you, leave it alone. She works in sales in a sex shop. She really does have to be open, friendly, and not make it weird for buyers when they come in. It’s her job, just as any other salesperson would be in any other shop.
 

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You have a crush. She's working. Don't confuse the fact that she is very good at her job with actual interest in you personally. I would tread very carefully, if at all.

You might simply come in, tell her your relationship ended, and that you aren't in need of more condoms just yet. Depending upon what she says, you might ask if she's interested in having coffee or lunch, etc.
I can agree with you with the first part of your post, but i'm 100% absolutely sure i wouldn't bring up my break up. ONLY if she ask about if i have a gf but that conversation narrative never going to happen in a sex shop imho.
 

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I agree wholeheartedly. It could be good customer service. Is she age appropriate? I ask because you refer to het as " gorgeous busty young girl". If she is age appropriate and before you pursue her just know she's probably heard it all before. If you do go back at least act as if you have another purchase on your mind. That might get a conversation going like your break up.Feel it out (not her). She might already have someone.
Yes of course she is age appropriate, im pretty sure she couldn't work there if not. Didn't thought for a second that i just swing by and open some cheesy pick up line.:D
 

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Based on your original story, my guess is she is ready to pounce.
Telling her youre single will no doubt end your ass in bed or the back room.
Use the condom.
 

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First of all, please stop referring to women as “girls”. Girls are children. This may be a young woman, but she is not a “girl”.

Personally, I think this probably has more to do with good customer service than anything else, but you never know. All you can do is engage her in conversation, she if she’s interested in talking about anything other than “shop talk”. If so, you can always see if she’s interested in going for a coffee. If so, great, if not, then nothing ventured, nothing gained. Make your purchase and say, “just thought I’d ask”. Just be friendly.

If she really doesn’t seem interested in talking with you, leave it alone. She works in sales in a sex shop. She really does have to be open, friendly, and not make it weird for buyers when they come in. It’s her job, just as any other salesperson would be in any other shop.
Noted!

There are signs when the opposite gender find a man somewhat attractive, like checking from toe to head, and i experienced it on her a few times. But you're right, there's always a chance it's just good customer service.
I think engageing a good conversation wouldn't hurt and if not, i'll ask her out for a coffee. If she doesn't seem interested it's no problem at all but i guess it's worth a shot. Thx for the advice!
 
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Yes of course she is age appropriate, im pretty sure she couldn't work there if not. Didn't thought for a second that i just swing by and open some cheesy pick up line.:D
Age appropriate in this scenario is, he's not 60 and she's not 25. I thought that was obvious.
 
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Based on your original story, my guess is she is ready to pounce.
Telling her youre single will no doubt end your ass in bed or the back room.
Use the condom.
At what point in his story did you come to this conclusion? She just might want an average size cock.
 

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I can agree with you with the first part of your post, but i'm 100% absolutely sure i wouldn't bring up my break up. ONLY if she ask about if i have a gf but that conversation narrative never going to happen in a sex shop imho.

Mentioning your breakup is because you've been regularly buying condoms. Unless she's dumb as a bag of rocks she can figure out why. Your chances of getting a "sure, I'd love to get coffee" are probably better if she has some reason to believe she's not sharing you.
 

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Mentioning your breakup is because you've been regularly buying condoms. Unless she's dumb as a bag of rocks she can figure out why. Your chances of getting a "sure, I'd love to get coffee" are probably better if she has some reason to believe she's not sharing you.
Good point. But i really can't imagine a topic where i can bring up some personal stuff like a break up without sounding unnatural and awkward.
 
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Good point. But i really can't imagine a topic where i can bring up some personal stuff like a break up without sounding unnatural and awkward.
I explained that already. "Hi, I don't need condoms today, because I broke up with my friend. Perhaps you can show me the Fleshlights."
 
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I agree with the general sentiment here. I worked at a porn store for some time, and like any retail experience, I had to be pleasant and cheerful for the customers. Many took that to mean I was flirting, simply because I worked at a porn store. So just be sure you're not mistaking good customer service for something more.

That said, there were more than a few men who came in regularly whom I had a sexual interest in. So it's not without possibility that she COULD be into you. But remove the setting and pretend she's at WalMart or a coffee shop. Treat her as a person first and foremost; she just happens to work at a sex shop. If she tries to sell you condoms, it would be incredibly easy to tell her you no longer need them; I assume you're not just going to buy them because you don't want to say no, right? It would be quite simple to slip a casual line in about your relationship ending.

Alternatively, just ask her for coffee or something. The crux is that if she declines, you have to remain friendly, take the no as the answer, and drop it. While she is no different than any woman working in any shop, she probably has been hit on in some pretty shitty ways by other men who think working at a porn store gives them free reign to be pigs. I definitely saw that myself when I worked at a porn store.
 

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First of all, please stop referring to women as “girls”. Girls are children. This may be a young woman, but she is not a “girl”.

Personally, I think this probably has more to do with good customer service than anything else, but you never know. All you can do is engage her in conversation, she if she’s interested in talking about anything other than “shop talk”. If so, you can always see if she’s interested in going for a coffee. If so, great, if not, then nothing ventured, nothing gained. Make your purchase and say, “just thought I’d ask”. Just be friendly.

If she really doesn’t seem interested in talking with you, leave it alone. She works in sales in a sex shop. She really does have to be open, friendly, and not make it weird for buyers when they come in. It’s her job, just as any other salesperson would be in any other shop.

My advice for your situation? Do what @LaFemme says and then tell us how it goes so we can learn from your experience. (This is good advice for many other situations).