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Do you like or dislike when your partner buys you a sex toy or a couples toy? My wife being shy and alittle naive leaves all the toy purchases up to me. Best thing I ever bought was a LELO majic wand. She really enjoys that. Been thinking about getting her one of those new clit massagers. She is very sensitive though it may be too much. Would you be appreciative or are sex Toys to personal?
 

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Hmmm. The few toys I enjoy are not cheap. I’d prefer a couples shopping hour online with a lot of discussion.
same if I’m treating him, I want to know a toy falls in his interest.
Hmmm. The few toys I enjoy are not cheap. I’d prefer a couples shopping hour online with a lot of discussion.
same if I’m treating him, I want to know a toy falls in his interest.
Hmmm. The few toys I enjoy are not cheap. I’d prefer a couples shopping hour online with a lot of discussion.
same if I’m treating him, I want to know a toy falls in his interest.
It doesn't pay to buy cheap. Always been happier buying good quality toys. They seem to perform better.
 

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Hmmm. The few toys I enjoy are not cheap. I’d prefer a couples shopping hour online with a lot of discussion.
same if I’m treating him, I want to know a toy falls in his interest.
What kind of treats do you buy him? Of you don't mind me asking.
 

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Nice that your relationship is at the point that you are comfortable buying him toys.
It is more “toys for us.”
I have a “retire the insertion toys” rule when a relationship ends/new one begins. Anything used on another goes with them, or in the trash.

We are trying to find common ground on lube used with someone else. I’m able to picture where and how hands get used, seeing casual contact with the firmer partner, with hands returning to the bottle. Plus, I would rather replace the chemical soup, as well.
 
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It is more “toys for us.”
I have a “retire the insertion toys” rule when a relationship ends/new one begins. Anything used on another goes with them, or in the trash.

We are trying to find common ground on lube used with someone else. I’m able to picture where and how hands get used, seeing casual contact with the firmer partner, with hands returning to the bottle. Plus, I would rather replace the chemical soup, as well.
Most toys we use are us toys. We really like PJUR silicone lube and H2O water based. PJUR is very good ,lasts along time and very slippery. H2O is good for toys and lasts pretty good.
 
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The first time I ever bought a toy was with my fella.. and it was absolutely one of the most memorable sex sessions we ever had. (I wrote about it on my blog)

I prefer to buy them together. Although I will say my guy knows me well enough that I wouldn't be angry if he picked something up for me just because he thought I/we would enjoy it together.

We currently don't have any toys, the ones we had we got rid of awhile back because it was just time.

If we do get any in the future, my preference is to pick them together. But like I said, I wouldn't be displeased with a surprise from him randomly if he felt like picking something for me.
 
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The only reason I buy them is the wife is too shy or intimidated to even go in the stores with me. Plus she is a little reluctant to try new things. If I introduce them and they don't.do the job oh well. Like I said best thing I ever bought was a LELO wand. Second was PJUR silicone lube. Bought a strap on and she was absolutely against using it.
 

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She wouldn't have to give a shit about being potentially embarrassed if she shopped online.

Just a suggestion.

I hate new places, or crowds.. but I'm not ashamed or embarrassed about buying a sex toy. I understand that some people prefer not to make such purchases on front of strangers though, which is fine.