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Hey everyone! Pretty nervous for my first thread but let’s just do it!

I turned 18 last year, which made me finally be able to properly order a sex toy/ visit a sex shop. I’ve been really interested in trying out/starting experimenting with sex toys. I was thinking maybe starting with a cock ring or a pocket pussy/fleshjack, but I know (at least think I know) there’s a bigger world out there.

What would you recommend me starting out with? What should I invest in first? (I have a students budget please keep that in mind)
 
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Hey everyone! Pretty nervous for my first thread but let’s just do it!

I turned 18 last year, which made me finally be able to properly order a sex toy/ visit a sex shop. I’ve been really interested in trying out/starting experimenting with sex toys. I was thinking maybe starting with a cock ring or a pocket pussy/fleshjack, but I know (at least think I know) there’s a bigger world out there.

What would you recommend me starting out with? What should I invest in first? (I have a students budget please keep that in mind)

Go with your gut…. If your wanting something to stimulate penetrative sex then a flashlight probably comes closest (pun intended)

if your just wanting something to up your wank game then a sleeve would probably be cheaper

whilst a cock ring will get the blood into your cock and give you some rigidity I think something that stimulates your shaft more is probably gonna bring you more kicks

If your into your butt being pleasured then you can’t go wrong with a prostate massager

as with anything experimentation is defo the way forward…. Find your erogenous zones, which you don’t need a toy for and work from there… you might find like me your nipples are hard-wired to your cock… in which case some clamps may be the way to go
 
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My biggest recommendation is to really look over everything the shop has in stock, either in store or online, and just kind of absorb it all. Then if any of it comes up later and you're curious, give it a try! I think what can be really useful is spending some quality time with yourself, just slowly jerking off and feeling your body and getting to know what turns you on the most. Once you know that, you can start finding toys to replicate it. I have really sensitive nipples so I started out with nipple suckers, for example.
 
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Go with your gut…. If your wanting something to stimulate penetrative sex then a flashlight probably comes closest (pun intended)

if your just wanting something to up your wank game then a sleeve would probably be cheaper

whilst a cock ring will get the blood into your cock and give you some rigidity I think something that stimulates your shaft more is probably gonna bring you more kicks

If your into your butt being pleasured then you can’t go wrong with a prostate massager

as with anything experimentation is defo the way forward…. Find your erogenous zones, which you don’t need a toy for and work from there… you might find like me your nipples are hard-wired to your cock… in which case some clamps may be the way to go

thanks man! i’ll definitely take everything into consideration!!
 
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My biggest recommendation is to really look over everything the shop has in stock, either in store or online, and just kind of absorb it all. Then if any of it comes up later and you're curious, give it a try! I think what can be really useful is spending some quality time with yourself, just slowly jerking off and feeling your body and getting to know what turns you on the most. Once you know that, you can start finding toys to replicate it. I have really sensitive nipples so I started out with nipple suckers, for example.

i’ll have to explore myself more!! thanks !!
 
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i’ll have to explore myself more!! thanks !!
Just remember to set the mood and take your time! Don't focus on getting to the finish line, focus on what makes you moan. Good luck!