Sex Values - Questionnaire

[ToryK]

Pretty deviant and Hypersexual as I suspected

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Hell yes lol

 

[ToryK]

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Hot!

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

My results seem pretty accurate, even though I feel there are some discrepancies. Particularly in the "Sex Drive" leaning so high since it seems like any answer other than complete celibacy would skew the percentages and it's not like I have sex (either with myself or another) everyday (or even every other day).

I also think the "Deviance" might be slightly high, although since the questions asked what one does now, not what one used to do, including my former involvement in the swinging community (a sub-group some in society considered deviant) would have increased the percentages even more.

 

[ToryK]

Yes

My results seem pretty accurate, even though I feel there are some discrepancies. Particularly in the "Sex Drive" leaning so high since it seems like any answer other than complete celibacy would skew the percentages and it's not like I have sex (either with myself or another) everyday (or even every other day).

I also think the "Deviance" might be slightly high, although since the questions asked what one does now, not what one used to do, including my former involvement in the swinging community (a sub-group some in society considered deviant) would have increased the percentages even more.

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Yes, I agree with your thought - "the questions asked what one does now, not what one used to do". I'd noted that as well and, as a result, viewed the survey as a snapshot of "who I am now", rather than an overview of all the crazy shenanigans I've enjoyed throughout my life. It also was an eye-opener, as I realized I've been more "fluid" than I'd previously believed!

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

Yes
Yes, I agree with your thought - "the questions asked what one does now, not what one used to do". I'd noted that as well and, as a result, viewed the survey as a snapshot of "who I am now", rather than an overview of all the crazy shenanigans I've enjoyed throughout my life. It also was an eye-opener, as I realized I've been more "fluid" than I'd previously believed!

The surprising part (and some here who are into all kinds of wild stuff might consider a negative) is in how vanilla I've actually become by not including past dalliances, such as the aforementioned swinging.
Of course, some people associate vanilla or less "deviant" sexual behavior in the same descriptor as "boring", but I would take issue with that as it's not like I still don't have great sex at least 2-3 times a week and sex that puts more of an emphasis on more romantic/affectionate interaction with just my wife than free-wheeling physical pleasure with multiple strangers.

Which also leads to the reason I feel the "affection axis" leans more away from hedonism now than in the past, as companionate sex has become more of a priority and preference than "one and dones" just to get off and seek the next newest thing.

While I admit part of me misses those times that would have altered the scores quite dramatically, part of me really doesn't and I enjoy this more stable, predictable period in my sexual life where frequent orgasms are not necessary and I've found an outlet in hobbies and other things that brings me just as much pleasure.

 

[armando986]

I'm pretty sure this has changed a lot over the past few years. I have been more open to try new things and learned to communicate better with my sexual partners, so my kinky side has really developed. Also, I've become more dominant too, that's is true, but I love being a submissive bottom every once in a while

 

[salinero112]

It´s funny.

 

[ToryK]

The surprising part (and some here who are into all kinds of wild stuff might consider a negative) is in how vanilla I've actually become by not including past dalliances, such as the aforementioned swinging.
Of course, some people associate vanilla or less "deviant" sexual behavior in the same descriptor as "boring", but I would take issue with that as it's not like I still don't have great sex at least 2-3 times a week and sex that puts more of an emphasis on more romantic/affectionate interaction with just my wife than free-wheeling physical pleasure with multiple strangers.

Which also leads to the reason I feel the "affection axis" leans more away from hedonism now than in the past, as companionate sex has become more of a priority and preference than "one and dones" just to get off and seek the next newest thing.

While I admit part of me misses those times that would have altered the scores quite dramatically, part of me really doesn't and I enjoy this more stable, predictable period in my sexual life where frequent orgasms are not necessary and I've found an outlet in hobbies and other things that brings me just as much pleasure.

Yup. All of that. I'm occasionally a bit sad that my kink life is mostly "in my mind" these days, but I look at it as the progression of life. Probably for the best that we men don't remain voracious sex beasts forever!

 

[ToryK]

I'm pretty sure this has changed a lot over the past few years. I have been more open to try new things and learned to communicate better with my sexual partners, so my kinky side has really developed. Also, I've become more dominant too, that's is true, but I love being a submissive bottom every once in a while

Yes. The ebb and flow of our sexual needs/desires is fascinating. Circumstances can be a factor, but also our own natural curiosity and personal development. It sounds like you're highly aware of the changes in your life "in real time". That's awesome. Many of us only recognize these things years later in retrospect!

 

[ToryK]

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It´s funny.

I'm glad you enjoyed! Your results look kinda hot to me (maybe funny too? lol).