Can we agree that, for women, sex without a condom feels better than sex with a condom? If so, how can a guy make sex WITH a condom feel better for the woman? I know that sex using a condom doesn't feel so great for guys, either, but the condom usually doesn't stop us from enjoying ourselves. My ex-girlfriend tells me that I'm amazing in bed and make her come multiple times every time so long as I don't use a condom. On the other hand, she doesn't get off so easily when I use one. I have to perform oral on her in order for her to come just once from intercourse. Now that I'll likely sleep with other women, I want to get them off, too, but probably won't be going down on them for fear of contracting an STD. (Sorry folks--sex is good, but I don't want to catch something fatal or that won't go away for short-lived pleasure.) Any advice?