Intercourse isnt really advisable until after the 6 week post natal check.Though it isnt a killer,in most cases,though it has been known.The reason being is that it takes at least 6 weeks for the body to begin to settle down after delivery and the womb is still distended for approx 3 months after,longer for the body to begin to recover after a c section.Air bubbles can be pushed into the blood stream and they in turn can be forced towards the heart.
Spending time together is important but sex isnt the priority,any guy that says that it is isnt a man im
bviously a guy will feel frustrated but that is why he has a hand and fingers.
JMO