But, what if it is? It sounds like he's been fantasizing about it a *LOT* of the time. If nothing else, he might want to try jerking off to fantasies of blowing other guys--it that's a turn-on, too, then maybe he might consider moving on to do it for real.
If it's not so hot or interesting, then it might just be that it's this one guy for whom he has those kinds of feelings, and in that case, I agree with the folks who say that, since the friendship isn't nearly as sexual as it was, it's best to let sleeping dogs lie.
