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just because she is on the pill is hardly a valid reason to have unprotected sex, there can always be that one time that she oops forgot to take the pill, and the next thing you know a baby is on the way, wear the condom.

now as for the foreskin, what issues is she having with it? are you the first guy that has foreskin that she has been with? sounds to me that she is one of those that really doesn't accept a foreskin and is pro-cut.

you might try rolling the skin back, but I don't think that will solve anything on her part. and as for it being too tight, try stretching it some, it will take some time for it to really loosen up, but it will work.

whatever you do, do not let her or anybody else talk you into getting cut, you have the one thing that so many men got stolen from them, hang on to it, I am in the process of restoring, I will never have what you have, but it sure will be the next best thing.

good luck.



I've just started having unprotected sex with my girlfriend (she's on the pill) but have some issues with my foreskin. Can anyone who has experience of this tell me whether the foreskin should be fully rolled back before inserting or not - I find it quite tight around the head if it is rolled back and therefore sex is not all that pleasurable.

Any comments welcome.
 

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Here in sweden they do "partial" cuts in cases where the foreskin is to tight. That is, simply remove a bit to enable everything freedom of movement, but leave enough to keep most of the glans and frenum covered as to not lose sensation.

one of my closest friends had the exakt problem you describe indianboy, only in his cae, if he got an erection before he had time to pull the skin back, it would snug up and hurt . on a few occasions it even "cracked" on the surface. And no amount of streching helped there. But he got it partially cut ans has been happy as a clam since. So my opinion is, if you have a large enough problem to warrant surgery, find a doc who's not a fanatic...
 

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Mine slips in and out with each stroke. There's a bit of a "pop" when my glands comes out on the downstroke that I find incredibly pleasurable. That and the sudden tug on my frenulum.
 

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Uncut and no precum...When I was a teenager I taught I would problem been uncut but when I begin to have sex and and pentrate my gf pussy for the first time my foreskin just rolled back exposing the head which was in her. I have no precum like other men so her pussy juice keep me moist for easy pentration and pumping.
 

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When I was in my teens I had to be careful to get my foreskin pulled back before I got erect or it would hurt like hell and I couldn't get the foreskin pulled back, I have a lot of girth and large head. Over the years the foreskin got looser and I generaly enjoy sex much better with it pulled back, with my girth it gets pulled back anyway on entry with most partners. Now in my middle years my foreskin is pretty loose, hell it ought to be I've put it thru a lot lol. So now I just pull it back and tie it in a knot, makes a great natural tickler. lol
 

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I don't really care about the cut/uncut debate. Personally, I have quite a tight foreskin, and a decent girth. Before I ever had sex I used to worry myself silly about whether it would work or not, whether I would tear it, injure myself, be able to have sex at all. Nowadays it is still the same, will not retract most of the time - if I am very soft then I have a chance - any stirring and no way jose. Anyway, despite all of this, I have no problem penetrating and having sex - I just let it do what it wants. I don't use lube and sometimes I feel my little fella pop out into the darkness and sometimes not. I would say try a bit more foreplay to relax your girl more and take it easy :)
 

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my skin is as loose as a female porn stars pussy lips. i want it off!
Well that's probably where most of your sensation is. If you're foolish enough to go for it a good butcher knife or kitchen scissors will probably save you a couple thousand quid. Or there's always the Plastibell and Smart Klamp for that smart done-it-hisself look: Good Man Corporation
 

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wow ive never really thought there was more then 2 types of dicks. cirumcised, and uncircumsized.. i for one am NOT circumcised, and when im soft it covers the whole head, but when im hard it doesnt even LOOK like im un-circumsized because the skins all the way back behind the head. although im kinda self conscience about having an uncirucumsized one, i feel as women dont like men who are un-circumsized, so i tend to not tell them. and by the time we get to messing around, its hard and you cant tell i am uncut anyways. there is only one drawback to being uncircumsed i think . which is you know the bottom half of the head where the skins attacted to the head? that part is what i dont like, and it hurts wheenver a women is jacking you off too hard, because it pulls down on the head and pretty much isn't pleasureable. :(
 

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Tony in the states they don't know how to jack a natural guy because there's so few intact adults. It's changing now, pretty close to fifty-fifty for newborns. Parents are beginning to pull their heads out of their asses.

Normally the area you refer to, the frenulum and frenar band is among the most sensitive parts. People are used to jacking cut guys as hard as possible, but this is painful for a natural guy, just like it is for a woman to have her sensitive bits handled roughly.

Tell them you are intact and some of your parts are as sensitive as theirs are, the way nature made us.
 

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I've just started having unprotected sex with my girlfriend (she's on the pill) but have some issues with my foreskin. Can anyone who has experience of this tell me whether the foreskin should be fully rolled back before inserting or not - I find it quite tight around the head if it is rolled back and therefore sex is not all that pleasurable.

Any comments welcome.


Ah, Indianboy, how fortunate that you are intact. It means that your sexual potential has been preserved.

Ideally, the foreskin should be pushed back on entry by the vaginal sphincter, which exposes the inner foreskin to stimulation by the vaginal walls. And remember, the innervation of the ridged bands just within the foreskin compare favourably with the sensitivity of finger-tips and lips. Circumcision always removes this highly sensitive region of the penis.

On the outstroke the same vaginal sphincter should pull your foreskin back over the glans, an action which helps prevent evaporation of vaginal moisture by contact with the air. This is important because women having sex with circumcised men tend eventually to experience dry, unpleasant, chafing sex.

If your foreskin cannot move easily back and forth, as described above, you may wish to "stretch" the opening. Simply insert a couple of fingers and pull out, away from your body, and also at right angles to your penile shaft. Hold that "stretch" for up to five minutes each time. Repeat the exercise two or three times a day. Pull hard but not to the point of pain. In time new skin cells will be encouraged to grow.

An internet site devoted to the process can be found here:

How to Fix Phimosis and Tight Foreskins, Solutions That Work

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From my personal experience its easier to penetrate, if you roll it back, else also it is fine as it tends to adjust itself. Also dont try to thrust hard initially, till you are comfortable with the full stroke!

For you I think the skin never retracted that much in the past as it is getting now. I would suggest you take some oil, even coconut oil or any other cool one ( i am elobrating as i read indian) and try to work your skind back as much as possible in the action like you are mastrubating.
After this DONT FORGET to remove oil by washing it. Let it be lubricalted later on on its own. Any dry neem based soap works good in removing oil.
 

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Wow, another circumfetishist and a doctor to boot. Sounds like a fortunate combination, except for everyone unfortunate enough to be seeking real medical information.

The foreskin is about the size of the infant's or the adult's palm. Your logic, or rather the lack of it defies immediate explanation. Perhaps more scarification would be to your sexual pleasure.

As is typical of the foreskin fetishists, you have made an aborted attack with no scientific ammunition. Your response is as dull as the other poster's who likes foreskins so he can dock. The size of the foreskin has nothing to do with anything. The preponderance of the evidence is that when a circumcision is done with the ratio of mucosa to skin as is seen in a newborn circumcision, then the sexual result is greater than the natural condition. To the poster who has experienced reduced sensation, one would have to know what the reasons for the circ. were and how it was done. If he had it done at some one else's request, that might be the reason. In our ongoing study of circ'd adults, the leading reason for dissatisfaction (dullness being number one) is having the operation to comply with a partner's desires. The other, is having too much mucosa removed.

The best news of the month is that the WHO has recommended that all males be circumcised. With the rates in the US going back up into the 90%+ range in many parts of the country: with a leading book on Birthing in France now recommending routine circumcision; the results of the various African studies showing the health benefits; the increase in late childhood/early adult circumcision rates rising in the UK, Australia (where in Queensland the rate is over 50%) Germany and France, it will not be too long before women and men everywhere see the benefits of sharing a healthy penis. As I said before, but the fetishists refuse to respond to, the uncut penis is THE state to own if you want penile and other sexually related diseases, par excellence.
As for docking-- well, one can only feel sad that more fulfilling options are not available to you... commiserations, mate.

To the poster who said that cut guys make angry attacks on the uncut ones-- they may but it is nothing compared to the vitriol of the foreskin fetishists. Look at the first guy to reply to me. It almost verges on hatred. I noted that in Australia last month, the guys who DO NOT get in the shower after a work out are the UNCUT guys for the most part. They quickly strip out of the gym gear and straight into their usual attire, facing the lockers. YUCK. But it was possible after a couple of weeks to see that almost all of those guys were uncircumcised.
I asked a guy who was showering next to me and without prompting he said, "Yeah, they seem to feel embarrassed about it!" Interesting, since they are (barely) the majority these days.
Is the inferiority thing that makes the uncut guys go so rabid in these forums? I wish I knew the answer to that. I saw medical docs get physical with each other at a Grand Rounds on this topic once. The pro-circ guys were very polite but got shouted down by the pro-frilly ranks. Says it all, I suppose and I guess I answered my own question.
 

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A lot of cut guys attack threads about foreskin, it happens all of the time

I have experience in both states and I call tell you, quite clearly, that being circumcised has greatly reduced my ability to feel sexual pleasure. Many other men who were cut later in life without a medical need often express the same feelings.

I was cut at birth very tightly and with alot of scar tissue.By age 30 I lost all sensation and the ability to become erect.Restoration is the only reason my wife and I have a sex life now.So the medical people can say what they want,but I live the reality.My son is intact and will remain so untill he can sign his own consent forms.Then if he wishes to alter his body it's his choice.
 

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As is typical of the foreskin fetishists...
Spoken like a true doctor is all I can say. How many foreskins have you collected Herr Doctor? We had another guy on here who claimed to be some kind of a medical person. He talked a lot like you.

How can foreskin be a fetish? Foreskin is normal. Normal is not a fetish.