Sex with a good friend's ex

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by limon666, Oct 10, 2008.

  1. limon666

    limon666 New Member

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    One of my best friends, his ex wants me. Every time I meet her, she gets raunchy towards me, sometimes right in front of him. Subtle caresses of the body, sometimes even rubbing her body against my manhood in a playful but extremely sexual way. I have an overwhelming desire to have sex with her, although I am in no way a typical sexual predator. I usually let girls approach me, not the opposite, but I really want her. Tonight I went to the toilet at a house party and she "accidentally" followed me in and licked her lips and quickly left as she saw me going for a piss. There's a massive sexual attraction but I can't honestly approach her because of her history. What should I do? I sit here writing this with a split mind. I want her so badly yet I know that it would bring a heap of trouble. Anyone been in this situation? Fuck, I wish shit wasn't so complicated.

    She's an overlooked gem. Beautifully perky breasts, strikes me as an absolute animal in bed. Damn, love stories aside, this is a complete lust story. Any ideas?
     
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    I have experience from both sides of this conundrum.
    Many friends of mine have been lustful for a woman I
    have been with. It has been bemusing to me. I was not
    jealous about this. They should have wanted a woman I
    was with. When I ended it with any particular woman, they
    were free and clear to do whatever they wanted with whomever
    they wanted, friend of mine or not. And I would have no problem
    with a friend of mine fucking an ex of mine.
    Conversely, I have had friends of mine tell me that I should date
    an ex of theirs, they didn't care.
    As long as friendships are not imperiled then people should date and fuck
    whoever they want to who will return the favor. It seems pretty simple
    to me.
     
  3. galaxus

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    i say let the dude know first.

    don't ask... just tell him i'm gonna pursue whats-her-name.... take it or leave it.... but in a more polite way.
     
  4. hot-rod

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    Hurry! Dude, go somewhere and jackoff and forget this girl...she be Trubl!
     
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    in the wise words of mickey from rocky:

    well... WHAT ARE YEH WAITING FOR?!?!
     
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    I'd say off limits unless good friend gives you the go and even then, pretty sketchy
     
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    I agree with hot-rod, she could be huge trouble. She might actually like you or just might be trying to fuck with her ex. Just ask if your friend/her ex is cool with it. If he is, do it. if she is trying to fuck with her ex by fucking you but he doesn't care then the both you won. If she actually likes you and he is cool with it, go for it. But you probably shouldn't do anything without his consent, if he is that good of a friend.
     
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    what he said...personally I'd never go there, but if your friend is ok with it, then go for it...just don't go falling in love with her!
     
  9. Principessa

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    Avoid her like the plague! She's just trying to use you to get back at him. :cool:
     
  10. D_Bob_Crotchitch

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    How could anybody not see that?
     
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    Amen!
     
  12. vince

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    You took the words out of my mouth there NJ. She may want to humiliate him and/or take revenge by messing with his friendships. If you do decide to fuck her, talk to your buddy first.
     
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    Well if you really like her then go for it, but if you just want to have sex with her ask yourself is it worth it first. If he is a really close friend then it may not be worth the effort, you'll get over her eventually.
     
  14. D_Bob_Crotchitch

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    Why would you want to risk a friendship over a ho?
     
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