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This is part sex with a large penis, part women's issues.
I had a talk with my wife last night about our sex life--or lack thereof. She had multiple c-sections, and sex is very painful for her. So painful that we rarely do it. I don't want to get into details but she's been to specialists and the solution is probably surgery and a favorable outcome isn't guaranteed. It's not something we talk about very much.
She said it's ironic that I'm married to her. She said there are probably women out there who would like 'it' (an extra large penis), whereas she would probably do better with someone much smaller in that category. I said, "But it hurts even when they do pap tests, doesn't it?" She said yes, it does hurt because they have to spread it open, but it doesn't hurt nearly as much as when I'm in there.
Yes, we use lots of lube. Yes, I'm gentle and slow (which is hard to do sometimes). I only 'insert' about half way.
Just venting. There really isn't another venue for venting like this. What can I do? Stand around the office coffee machine and say, "Hey guys, Have I told you my wife and I never have sex because my dick is too big?"
I had a talk with my wife last night about our sex life--or lack thereof. She had multiple c-sections, and sex is very painful for her. So painful that we rarely do it. I don't want to get into details but she's been to specialists and the solution is probably surgery and a favorable outcome isn't guaranteed. It's not something we talk about very much.
She said it's ironic that I'm married to her. She said there are probably women out there who would like 'it' (an extra large penis), whereas she would probably do better with someone much smaller in that category. I said, "But it hurts even when they do pap tests, doesn't it?" She said yes, it does hurt because they have to spread it open, but it doesn't hurt nearly as much as when I'm in there.
Yes, we use lots of lube. Yes, I'm gentle and slow (which is hard to do sometimes). I only 'insert' about half way.
Just venting. There really isn't another venue for venting like this. What can I do? Stand around the office coffee machine and say, "Hey guys, Have I told you my wife and I never have sex because my dick is too big?"