sex with a man

[Countryguy63]

Great post joey!!

Welcome to the site :smile:

edit..Just realized how old this post is, but if the OP is still around, I am very interested in how it went? How did you feel during (physically and emotionally), after, and how do you feel about it now? Still friends with him? If someone happens to know the OP, if you could alert him to this, it would be greatly appeciated.

edit again...nevermind, went and checked. Not active since 2006..too bad

 

[D_Chauncy Throckmorton Dicque III]

Great post joey!!

Welcome to the site :smile:

edit..Just realized how old this post is, but if the OP is still around, I am very interested in how it went? How did you feel during (physically and emotionally), after, and how do you feel about it now? Still friends with him. If someone happens to knkow the OP, if you could alert him to this, it would be greatly appeciated.

edit again...nevermind, went and checked. Not active since 2006..too bad

Thanks. I hope that guy gets to read it. I'm not trying to tell anyone how ot live there lives. Just giving my personal experience. I think there is very much a double standard with this when it comes to men n women. I doubt anyone would call a woman a lesbian for fooling around with a girl, but if a guy does it everyone screams fag.

 

[Bigbob89]

You can have sex with a guy and not be "gay" bi maybe. But if you have no actual feelings for a guy and fall in love then you just like to have sex with men. Like I see a guy and I don't find them attractive at all but I'd hook up with a guy no doubt. But I'd never been in a relationship with one. Hope that helped

 

[joeweekend]

well, the "relationship" with my girlfriend isn't that strong, so I don't know where it's going to go. as for my friend, he told me he always had a thing for me sexually, and to be honest, i've always wondered what sex with him might be like. I would like to do it, but i'm not sure of my own sexuality.

If you want to do him you want to do him. Stop thinking about whether you are or aren't some specific thing as a substitute for deciding whether you want to get it on with this guy. You're putting the cart before the horse trying to decide you orientation before deciding whether you are attracted to some particular person.

 

[LittlerascleX]

Im un the same boat you are man. I have had girlfreands, had sex with them, but I still have thoughts about experimenting with guys. Any thoughts on what I should do?

 

[Countryguy63]

Im un the same boat you are man. I have had girlfreands, had sex with them, but I still have thoughts about experimenting with guys. Any thoughts on what I should do?

The best advice I can give is don't deny your feelings. Be comfortable in experimenting if the possibilities ever surface. Without knowing what is causing you to hesitate, it's hard to get any more in depth.

 

[ripvanwinkle]

...I find myself fantasizing about having sex with another man. is this a sign that i'm gay? ...

this shouldn't be so tough to flesh out, so to say...

 

[Short&Thick]

I'm really curious to know how this turned out. I read through the entire thread with anticipation. I've only cybered with a guy online, but even that brought unintended consequences in our friendship. Was totally spontaneous, but nice.

So how'd it go?! Inquiring minds want to know, lol.

 

[438818]

This is my first post on this site. So here are my two cents. I don't think a persons orientation is defined by what they enjoy physically. I've NEVER been attracted to a man in my life.I don't see anything beautiful about a man. BUT, for the last 10 yrs ijn between girlfriends I have met on and off with a guy for oral sex. WHy? Because a mouth is a mouth, and a hand is a hand. I just wanted to get off. Drama free, and guilt free. I don't consider myself anything but str8. Men stick there dick in all kinds of things to get off. I think there is a post on here about a guy fucking a melon. Does that mean he is a melonsexual? Of course not. He just used the melon to get off. Which leads me to my point. We all like to get off. Some people are just more open minded about the avenues that are open to them. I have a girlfriend whom I love very much. Best relationship I've ever had, and best sex I have ever had. She is bi, and fuckin loves that I have had the experiences I have had.I think a persons sexual orientation is defined by whom they develope an emotional connection with.
So, if you just see this friend as an easy uncomplicated way to get off from time to time I wouldn't question yourself to much. Mostly likely you ar thinking the same thing all str8 men think about. Now, if you find yourself being genuinely attracted to men physically, and emotionally then I would venture to say you are on your way to being gay. Hope I was of some help.

Nice try you are bisexual but just in denial about it bud. You can tell yourself that it's just sex or claim that you are not attracted to men at all or any other BS closet cases say to justify the fact that they are sexually attracted to men but do not want to accept it. Let's be real here if you actually were heterosexual or straight you would not be having any sex at all with men even just once in awhile. You may love women but you are not heterosexual or straight.

 

[inthrutheoutdoor]

Well, I look at it this way, I an genuinly attracted to both sexes. If you would take 10000 random women and 10000 random men and ask me how many of each I'd be willing to have sex with I'd say probably around 500 to 1000 of the women but only 10-20 of the men. I'm much pickier when it comes to my own gender. Having said that the best sex I've ever had was with a man.

Another thing is what type of porn does one watch (if they do). I do not like watching gay or lesbian porn. When I watch B/G porn my fantasy depends on several things. If the woman is exceptionally attractive I'll fantasize I'm the guy fucking her. If she's average and the guy boning her is exceptionally well endowed I'll fantasize that I'm the woman who's getting fucked.