Sex with a smaller girl - got a couple of questions.

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So, my girlfriend and current partner is quite a bit smaller than me. I'm 6'3, 180 lbs, and 7 X 6. She's 5'4 and 110lbs.

We've only had sex once, with it being my first time. We tried for a little while, and due to my height, I couldn't thrust while penetrating; the position was too awkward. My dick was bent down and then straightened halfway to even get in her, and my hips were too low to get any thrusting at all.

Long story short: are there any positions you can recommend that won't put so much strain on me being on top? What are some of your experiences with smaller girls?
 

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my advice for this would be
put a pillow under her butt. (raises her to your height)
go down on her,until she dilates.
use more lube,use only a bit of your cock at first,
you should be able to intuitively tell when
she is ready for more.


:smile:
 

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I'm 5ft 2, I've had a few partners who were 6ft 3 and I can't honestly say it's made any difference, maybe it was just the awkwardness of being with someone new?

That's similar to my experience. I'm 5'3" and have been with more guys in the 6'2"-6'3" range than any other height. It's never been a problem.
 

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So, my girlfriend and current partner is quite a bit smaller than me. I'm 6'3, 180 lbs, and 7 X 6. She's 5'4 and 110lbs.

We've only had sex once, with it being my first time. We tried for a little while, and due to my height, I couldn't thrust while penetrating; the position was too awkward. My dick was bent down and then straightened halfway to even get in her, and my hips were too low to get any thrusting at all.

Long story short: are there any positions you can recommend that won't put so much strain on me being on top? What are some of your experiences with smaller girls?

I'm 6'6". My last girlfriend in Korea was about 4'10" and we had great sex all the time. I was very close to three times her mass. No idea what your problem is, keep practicing I guess.

As you already suggested yourself, this probably has a lot more to do with your inexperience than the height disparity, which is really pretty inconsequential in your case.
 

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So, my girlfriend and current partner is quite a bit smaller than me. I'm 6'3, 180 lbs, and 7 X 6. She's 5'4 and 110lbs.

We've only had sex once, with it being my first time. We tried for a little while, and due to my height, I couldn't thrust while penetrating; the position was too awkward. My dick was bent down and then straightened halfway to even get in her, and my hips were too low to get any thrusting at all.

Long story short: are there any positions you can recommend that won't put so much strain on me being on top? What are some of your experiences with smaller girls?
LOL, Not to be mean, but it seems pretty obvious to me that you have no idea what you are doing and are using the hieght difference as an excuse. Why not be honest and ask for some advice about how to 'do it'.
 

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Either lift her hips up or prop her up with a pillow if you want to be on top. You could stand on the floor with her on the bed and go from behind with her ass up (or from the the front if you have a high bed). Then of course she could go on top...lots of options, you will figure something out.
 

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Allow her to take control of finding a position (s)... they do this well/better
I have had smaller built females...that wasn't able to allow me to thrust & penerate them if I was on top....so I let them do a sitting postion on my peter and take as much as they could until theyfelt comfortable & relaxed with me...generally they didn't want all my peter up in them...I figured getting a little is better than none at all.....(wink/smile)
 

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my advice for this would be
put a pillow under her butt. (raises her to your height)
go down on her,until she dilates.
use more lube,use only a bit of your cock at first,
you should be able to intuitively tell when
she is ready for more.


:smile:


Thats excatly what you do,, im 5'5", but i've been with amn that was 6'5" and it works really well,, plus deeper penetation :biggrin1:
 

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I am 6'1" and I dated a girl in college that was just under 5'.
It was difficult at 1st but what psidom said is good and of course her being on top seemed to work best for us. That way she controlled the depth and how fast of me so it was more pleasureable for her. There were only a few times that she really wanted to try to take all of me, and I let her decide when that was. There was a few times when she was feeling adventurous that she wanted to take me doggy style and try to take more of me, but again we went slow and made sure she was very wet and lubed. It is a challenge but we had some amazing sex and it was worth it.
CJ
 

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my aunt is like 4'10 90lbs and her husband is 6'10 280lbs ... i haven't seen them in years (upity jerks) but it did boggle my mind when i was younger.. just crush her i would think..